I Get Tired Just Reading Your Personal Ad

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Friday, June 11th, 2010

  Better use for a Great Wall of China cannon 

It has been such a whirlwind lately that Ive just about lost my voice, so forgive me for not posting sooner. After seeing Tears for Fears in Manila & visiting the Great Wall of China en route to the States, we did a 3 week tour of the South, seeing family & friends in Georgia, S. & N. Carolina, I did my FIRST Teacher Training EVER in San Diego & now, were home in LA for the summer. Boy, do I need a breather!

I hope to see many of you in my LIVE workshops this summer in LA, including the upcoming Releasing Intensive on Saturday, June 26th.

People often ask me about personal ads as though getting it right is the Holy Grail. Read on to find out my response.

I Get Tired Just Reading Your Personal Ad


I read the funniest blog the other day, complaining about the high octane personal ads that sound exhausting. The writer just wanted to go lie down.

This brings to mind a false assumption many believe about dating. Compatibility is a fake idea. Seriously! Studies show over & over that what people say they want and what they actually want are two different things. There is more of a chemistry/soul recognition happening than someone who looks good on paper in each instance.

So, take the pressure off of getting your personal ad perfect or ticking off a list of qualities with each prospective partner. Better to just be in a good mood while writing your ad and abandon loading it up with all your activities.

And as far as dating goes, look for an initial connection. It doesn’t have to be complete excitement at first, because for some chemistry opens up gradually. But you have to have some attraction, which is an indicator there may be something there.

Free Teleseminar

On Monday, June 14th, Im doing a rare, free teleseminar called LETTING GO: A Primer on Release. Its a great way to start out the summer -- getting released so you can dive fully into summer fun. To find out more & sign up (hundreds signed up within the first two hours!), follow this link: http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#1350

Talk to you soon, and I hope to see you while Im in the U.S. this summer!

lots of love,
Kathryn

PS: The Releasing Intensive is projected to sell out next week due to limited attendance. If you have major release issues or find yourself in a lot of pain, go ahead & reserve your spot NOW here:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events#1400

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Valentines SOS

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Are you single and kind of dreading Valentines Day? You are not alone. I have tons of emails every year from people in your same boat so take comfort from that. Id like to help by reminding you of the following:

1. Valentines Day was created by a chocolate company! It is a manufactured holiday and while, yes, its fun to send love reminders to people, it is JUST ANOTHER DAY. When you are in love, you celebrate regularly and dont need a special day to remind you. And when youre single, you may think, "bah, humbug!" and thats just fine.

2. The majority of Valentines and even flowers go out to non-sweethearts. More flowers and remembrances are sent and received by students, teachers and family members than by romantic partners. So claim this holiday for YOU whether youve met a romantic soulmate or not. And remember that there are nonromantic soulmates such as pets, parents, friends, children and even siblings so tap into that love energy which connects you to the same unconditional love that you will feel when you come together with your One.

3. Make a point to send out love to the soulmate you havent met yet. Buy them a card to give them later or spend a few moments thinking of them and sending a message to them on the inner.

4. Every one of us has been the only office worker NOT to receive flowers on an occasion. This day is in NO way a competition to see if youre loved or not. Of COURSE you are! So remove your ego from being in such a competition and if anyone wants to rub it in, feel bad for them that they would need to resort to such a low vibe.

5. When you are with your One, it will make up for EVERY bad Valentines day you ever had. If this one isnt that great, it will get healed in the future, I promise!

Have a good one, and I bless you for love beyond your wildest dreams!

love,
Kathryn

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Cruising around Boracay while our eldest, Calvin, visited in January

Feb 11, 2010

It has been a WHIRLWIND lately and sorry I havent written. We had the BEST time in my soldout Deliberate Creation Telecourse, and Ive just returned to Boracay from Australia, where I taught a few packed workshops and did some interviews.

When it is SO snowy in the U.S., I wish you all could don your bikinis and join us here in the sun.

It is almost Valentines Day and so of course, Im doing lots of media and want to remind you that even if youre single it can be an enjoyable day.

So, heres my popular video on the subject:

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Great Career Bad Love Life!

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To hear an audio version of this blog, click here:

Q: Kathryn, Why is it so easy for me in other areas but so hard in love?

I have a great career that Im proud of. I have tons of friends, am close with my family and even head up a volunteer effort. But I cannot seem to find my guy, and love has always been hard for me.

Why is this and what can I do about it?

A: There are a couple of reasons this might be so.

1) Other areas like job are linear. Logical. An easy-to-see progression.

2) Secondary goals will have less resistance, but with a big goal, you will smack up into ALL of your resistance. The key is getting around it. But its valuable because you can really move if you face your blocks head-on. How?

• When I work with someone on an issue like this, well assess where the wall is

• It depends on the nature of your past relationships and even your childhood

• Once we pinpoint the blocks, we can put together a protocol to move forward. Some blocks might be sheer resistance. Others may come up as you interact with likely prospects

• It really helps that you have success templates in other areas. That can be put to good use

Heres an example of a woman that I helped.

During intake, "Sue" admitted she had never had a successful relationship.

The longest one shed had was 4 months, and it just fizzled after a while. He quit calling.

Sue was very head-centered, and like you, she had a very good career.

She tended to connect with men in work mode, not from her heart. And there was some past trauma thrown in there that added extra resistance.

We put in a protocol of:

- becoming more heart-centered when outside of work

- scheduled free, fun time

- worked on flirting and laughing and just enjoying herself

- Sue had to learn to create emotional bonding, too

But the upshot is the most lasting relationship of her life. She is engaged to a wonderfully charming man, and they are moving in together.

Yes, the things we want the most can seem elusive, but with some work at dissolving the resistance, they can still happen and happen quickly.

I bless you for finding your way through your own resistance.

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How to get your ex back

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At long last (and I know youve been asking for a while), weve released the 5th and final video in my Breakup Recovery series just today.

This one is called "How to Get Your Ex Back" and you can find it here:

We have this weird phenomenon of peoples former flames coming back when they do my release process. 

Yes, you can get them back, but should you? 

Be warned that only 10% of the time does it STICK.

Enjoy!

love,
Kathryn

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Something To Do NOW!!!

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12/30/09 Boracay, Philippines

Happy almost New Year! We are in the middle of all of the action on White Beach in Boracay for a few days, staying right on the beach and it is pretty fun. Were living in bathing suits and alternate between lounging, playing games on the beach and taking a dip.

Holiday Love!

As opposed to last year -- when we stayed in with family for New Year’s Eve -- we’ll be on a yacht with friends, watching fireworks go off all over this 4-mile-long beach! A perfect way to shepherd in a new decade, no?

Heres something you MUST DO today or very soon.

DO YOUR INTENTIONS! The beginning of a new decade is a POWERFUL time to affirm what you want. You can ride on the vortex of CHANGE -- extremely strong right now -- to watch your dreams happen.

If you took the free teleseminar I did Monday night, you know to pick 4 things that you really want in 2010 – no holds barred - write them down and hold them as sacred.

Light a candle over them. Then at midnight on New Years Eve, make a toast and bless these intentions (you don’t have to disclose what they are if you don’t want to).

If you want to dive in further to make your intentions happen quickly (especially if they’re big or if you have been stuck and not manifesting), I’m teaching a 4 week telecourse on Deliberate Creation, which includes a private mini-session with me and therefore is very limited in enrollment, in January & February.

In just 24 hours, half of the slots already got filled, so if you want to dive further into making your intentions happen in breakthrough fashion, then look into joining us while we still have spaces available at:

www.kathrynalice.com/deliberatecreation/

See you soon! And I bless your 2010 to be OFF THE CHARTS!!

love,
Kathryn

Santa Arrives by Boat on Boracay!

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Getting An Ex Back After A Bad Break Up It Only Takes One Trick to Win Her Back

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Getting an ex back after a bad break up may seem like the most difficult task on the planet. It doesnt have to be though. Many guys make it much more difficult than is necessary. You see, youve been led to believe, mostly in Hollywood movies and by the makers of fine jewelry, chocolate, and greeting cards, that this is the way its supposed to be. That isnt the case at all.


In fact, once the girl leaves, the average relationship may seem irrevocably broken, but there are still easy tips you can follow that really will help you get her back. Here are a few things you should remember if you really want to win her back.

Stop Living in the Past

Turn of the century American Author, Alice Morse Earle, once wrote: "Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. Thats why it is called the present." Living in relationship past robs you both of all the joy of each day together when youre in the relationship. Now that she has left, however, it can rob you of a clear perspective on what needs to be done now in order to save the relationship and make it work this time around.

Become the Man You Want to Be


This is hard for many men. Its something you may not have given a lot of thought to. Bruce Willis starred in a great movie called The Kid, where the grown up man is confronted by his eight year old self. The eight year old was horrified at the man hed become saying, "So, Im forty, Im not married, I dont fly jets, and I dont have a dog? I grow up to be a loser." Sometimes there is wisdom in those childhood echoes. You may have given up on the idea of flying jets (who really ever gives that one up though?), but that doesnt mean you cant take steps to be the man you want to be -- even if that does involve learning to fly a jet. The first step is deciding who you want to be. Then you must tackle the process of becoming that man.

How does that Help You Get the Girl?

Life doesnt always follow a movie script. You might have to wait a little while to really get her attention. But, once you start making real, notable changes in the man you are and stop trying to recapture a past that wasnt as picture perfect as you remember, youll be able to gain a new outlook on the future. One thing is certain. Once you become the man you WANT to be, the here and now, the PRESENT, is something shell WANT to be part of.

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How to Get Your Ex Back After a Bad Break Up

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Breaking up is bad enough on its own, having a bad break up makes things much worse. If you want to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back after having such a blow out and leaving on bad terms can be challenging. In at least one of the things outlined below it will force a necessary thing to happen. So well get right into that now:

Give your ex some space. This is easier to do with a bad break up than a normal one since you probably arent talking to each other. This is an important cool down period for both of you to calm down and be able to think about the relationship rationally again. The separation period is recommended to be at least a month long, but youll find you need this month to do other things.

One of those things is reflecting and evaluating the relationship. You dont want to repeat the same mistakes again so the clearer and more definitively you are able to find the cause of the break up the better youre going to be when you get back together. Your ex will probably also be using this time to figure out what went wrong and where. This step is important so youre not caught in an on-again off-again loop where nothing is being solved.

When you approach your ex about this avoid playing games. They know you by now and perhaps know things about you that you may not even know. Little things that say you havent changed or want them back for the wrong reasons. Youre supposed to be a new person so act like it! Your ex will have little to no interest in games, especially if the break up was a bad one.

These are a couple of things you need to do and can do to improve your chances at getting your ex back. If you have mutual friends its pretty much a sure thing your ex ill get wind of your activities and after cooling down may miss you and return. While there are many other things you can do to get them back, they are beyond the scope of this article, but all hope is not lost. It will take work and time, but you can succeed.


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Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back After A Bad Break Up Time To End The Pain And Get Her Back Again!

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You want to get your ex girlfriend back after a bad break up. You still love her so much. You cant eat, and cant sleep. You are feeling that your life is not the same without her. Your girlfriend decided to end the relationship and broke up with you. You are feeling very bad right now. However, the good news is that this situation doesnt have to be permanent. Just keep on reading since you will find the way to get your ex girlfriend back after a bad break up as well.

Dont do anything when the two of you are angry

It is a fact that your head is not clear and you cant think through thinks during the break up. I know that you probably are trying to think about your next move, but it is very possible that you might make a wrong move in the condition as mentioned. To get your ex girlfriend back after a bad break up, you really need to put yourself together in order to be able to get over the pain from the break up. This is considered to be the first step that you should take.

Remember, you will be able to think clearly and make the right decision if you can take care of yourself from the pain as previously stated. This way, you are improving your chances to get her back as well.

Dont forget about how she feels

To get your ex girlfriend back after a bad break up, you really need to know how she feels about you. Does she have any feelings left for you? Well, it is not difficult to answer this question since there are clues that you can look for. At this time, dont listen to what she says because you will never be able to know the truth. Just try to look for the clues since they cannot lie to you. Once you are sure that she still has some feelings left for you, then you may proceed with the next step in order to get her back just like you want.

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3 Bad Reasons to Date On Line

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So many people ask me: "Do I have to get on-line?" My answer is below.

3 Bad Reasons to Date On-Line

Do you have to on-line date? No, you dont. A minuscule percentage of people meet their soulmate on-line while 80% of those who say theyre with their soulmate found them right under their noses. Here are three BAD reasons to put your profile on a matchmaking website.

1. Your friends tell you its mandatory. Your friends dont know what is right for you, and on-line dating is not for everyone.

2. You are desperate & worried youll never meet someone. Try to wait until youre centered to make such a decision. Nothing good comes out of desperation.

3. You think on-line is the perfect place for your touched-up photo & carefully crafted profile to land the love of your dreams. Please. While almost 90% of people on-line supposedly fudge their profiles with an old photo or misrepresent their age, being honest is a statement to the world that you are enough as is (and the quickest way to find your soulmate on-line).

Two GOOD reasons to on-line date?

1. To tell the Universe that youre ready for love.

2. To see the abundance of available, appealing single people out there.

As millions know, attracting love does not require on-line dating EVER, but if you do so, do it for the right reasons and with the right energy.


love,
Kathryn

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March 23, 2010

At Our Boracay Villa

We are heading to Hong Kong for Spring Break and are unbelievably excited about it. It has been a lifelong dream of mine to go there, and our children have been asking to go to Hong Kong Disney for three years.

Were taking our nanny, who has never flown before. Shell give us a chance to do some grownup things while she takes the children and is accompanying us on all of the tours and fun. Shes excited, too!

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Holiday Love!

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If you’re despairing at being single over the holidays, take heart! It is very common for people to meet their soulmate somewhere along the year end festivities. Perhaps it’s the intensified longing that brings love or the many parties or reaching out that is done during the season. But if you undertake the upcoming days with the right attitude, you may be surprised at what happens. Some tips on making holiday magic happen:

1. Put connection first and foremost. Do everything you can to bring enjoyment to your holidays. This puts you in a magnetic frame of mind & you’ll have fun even if love doesn’t come along.

2. Plan well. Keep your energy positive by setting up some treats for yourself such as spending time with friends, a good novel or even avoiding things that bring you down. Learning to take care of your own happiness is key to attracting love, even if the activity doesn’t seem directly related to meeting someone.

3. Appreciate the Season’s Gifts. Maybe time with family brings up your stuff (& by all means, minimize it if you need to or schedule breaks from them), but there are many things about the holidays to appreciate. Time off from work. Festive occasions. Gifts to unwrap and to give. Revel in the break from routine in any way you can.

I have no doubt that many will be emailing me with their delightful holiday love stories, and I hope YOU’RE one of them!

Holiday Heartbreak

Going through the holidays shortly after a divorce, a breakup, heartbreak or even a death can cast a pall on them. But you can make the best of the time and even find comfort in it. And if you use the above advice to find new love, you wouldn’t be the first to do so even as you grieve.

• Don’t expect life to be normal. You won’t be up to snuff, but you can choose a focus to minimize pain.

• Being with others and seeking connection with friends, family and meeting new people can help you to quit dwelling on the past.

• It is certainly a time for self-indulgence. You’ve never had a better excuse to opt out of things you don’t enjoy or to stay home all day in your jammies watching reality t.v. marathons.

• But don’t indulge in a pity party. Do a release and then replace it with hope for your future and some steps in that direction. Feeding the attachment by wallowing in it will put you through needless misery. 

Our Releasing a Person CD, available as a download immediately or as a hard copy CD contains the magical process of release that Kathryn is known for as well as tools for staying released and moving on with your life. Learn more about it here.


love and support,
Kathryn

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December 27, 2010

Happy holidays! I hope youre having GREAT ones. Weve been at a Palm Springs resort with Jons family and 3 out of 4 of our boys. Swimming has been great and we actually rode a CAMEL at the Living Desert.

Im super excited about where we will spend winter, a SECRET well reveal later. But heres a hint: its tropical. Yes, our Portable Lifestyle continues.

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How to Get Your Ex Back After a Bad Break Up This is How to Get Your Ex Back Fast!

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The end of a relationship or even worse the end of a marriage is quite painful and depressing for most of us, because it creates feelings of insecurity and loss.

Before we decide to put a relationship behind us, we must make every effort to overcome all the problems. When someone is important to us, then we must fight and make sacrifices to keep this person in our lives. If you want to get your ex back , then the first thing you need to do is to identify all your mistakes and shortcomings, that led to the separation.

Here are some common mistakes that usually ruin a relationship:

•You were too critical. If you were constantly complaining, then you may have caused feelings of helplessness and rejection in your partner. This alone could have been the reason for the break up, because no one can tolerate this kind of behavior for a long time.

•You played too many power games. Did you ever try to impose your will upon your partner? Relationships should not be about competition, because this is usually disastrous.

•You got too comfortable. Being too comfortable inside a relationship is a problem, because it makes you seem boring. Taking your partner for granted is never a good idea. You should never let yourself go and you should try to keep your partner intrigued and entertained.


So, what happens if you have identified your mistakes and are now ready to get back with your ex?

Here are some simple tips that can help you win your ex back:

1.Do not try to make him/her jealous by mentioning other men or women. Your ex will immediately understand what youre trying to do and you will turn them off.

2.If you have discovered that they have already started another relationship, acting jealous or desperate would be a bad idea. Keep in mind that you may have an advantage over your rival: you have a past together.

3.Rediscover your interests: Sometimes a lasting relationship may be a bad thing: it often makes us lose our personal interests. This may be a good time to rediscover your old hobbies and friendships.

4. Do not bad mouth your ex lover: As tempting as it may be, saying negative things about your former partner is really not a good idea. If you need to get the anger out, it would be better to visit a counselor, or talk to someone you can trust. Also, if you are trying to get him/her back, negative talk is counter-productive, because it will only create feelings of vengeance and retaliation.

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How to Make 2011 YOUR YEAR for Love!

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January 2011

Hi! Weve spending most of January and at least part of February in Jamaica, mon, and enjoying it! Right now, our all-inclusive resort has got us eating & doing too much, but its all fun and the weather cant be beat. Our eyebrows have all disappeared, and weve got tans, too.

Bringing on Love in 2011!

Are you determined that 2011 is the year you get your soulmate? Or at least hoping? There are ways to ENSURE that it is by doing some strong intention-setting and then backing that up with some changes.

1. Write down what you want in love. Get specific & do this with feeling. Decorate it, light a candle over this intention & bless it.

2. Send love to your One. This person you’re calling forth is out there now, living & breathing & looking for you, too. A soul call, an invitation to join you in your life, is quite powerful.

3. Get hopeful, eradicate blocks. You’re going to have to ensure that you’re open to love. If you’ve been cynical, find some faith that yes, you GET LOVE! (true) If you’re hanging on to a past love, let go into a vision of something better.

You have every hope for love and let’s get determined that this year is IT for you! I am with you.

We still have just a couple of spaces left in my FIRST EVER telecourse on love. Create-a-Mate entailed 4 classese by phone in February and March for the pupose of "creating" your mate. You ought to check it out just to get the incredible stories of people who have used this work to conjure up the love of their life!

Check it out here NOW to get in on it (its limited to just 50 people and about 45 spaces are already taken): www.kathrynalice.com/create-a-mate

We’ve Opened Enrollment for Our June 2011 Teacher Training

Our June 2011 Love Attraction Coach Training is now open for enrollment and quite a few of the spaces have been taken. This program gets more kudos than any other trainer training for its emphasis not only on schooling you in this magical material that has brought love to thousands but ALSO in making a career of it.

If you are looking for a fulfilling lucrative career that comes with setup, license and referrals, check out the training NOW. You can get an easy 5 payment program with a discount if you sign up before the end of January. Find out more here.

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Bless Your Bad Love Life!

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My Boys in a Boracay-Style Tricycle

November 16th, 2009

Hi and welcome to my new Blog! I’ve switched to this one, because it’s easier and I’ll be able to post more easily & more often.

My family and I are in Boracay, Philippines for the winter. I’m working on my new book and we are enjoying the heck out of this charming tiny tropical island which is just 4 miles long and ½ mile wide.

Bless Your BAD Love Life!

Those who start off with a bad love life are often the ones who end up the happiest doing my work. Why is this?

• When youre willing to wait for love, you demonstrate at the highest level, not settling just for the sake of having someone in your life.

• Going through a great deal to find love, having a series of disappointing dating experiences puts your desire for your true love on HIGH. As long as you dont sink into despair or cynicism (something my work prevents), then this passionate wanting brings to you the love youve wanted.

• Finally, when youve had some hard knocks in love or NO love life at all for a period of time, you never take your soulmate for granted, once they show up. You have more appreciation for this amazing relationship and end up happier than anyone you know.

If youre ready to do serious work to call forth your soulmate, The 30 Day Soulmate Bootcamp is still on SALE as a downloadable for a short time longer. Get it with 4 hot extras now here!
I can’t believe the holidays are almost here. It’s our third time to put together some special packages at substantial discounts for the season. You can even order them gift-wrapped or purchase downloads to get them immediately. To see them, visit this link:

More soon – take good care!

love,
Kathryn

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Breaking a Bad Dating Pattern

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If you are ready for love and need to ditch an old dating pattern, now is a perfect time to set that intention.

If you have had a bad dating pattern – like going for unavailable or hurtful people, having chemistry with those who are bad for you or being closed due to past hurt – you are not alone. I have worked with thousands of people with similar patterns, and it has been gratifying to watch them dissolve unproductive patterns to date for their soulmate.

There is a way to shift your preferences and get rid of sabotaging dating habits once & for all.

1. See reality and know you can do SO much better. If someone isn’t completely in to you, admit it. If someone pulls you down or creates misery for you, admit it. No longer try to romanticize something that is undeserving of you and vow to wait for better: a mutual, supportive love.

2. See yourself better. As you realize how special and sacred you really are, you will no longer allow anything unworthy of you. You will have better boundaries, not accept someone who treats you casually or worse, puts you down. You will no longer get hooked into an “eel” or waste time with someone who is not The One, keeping yourself free & available for your soulmate.

3. Imagine yourself with soulmate love. The key to moving beyond your past, what you have known so far, and into true love is to make where you are going more real than where you are now. Fantasize about what you want and keep it in mind so you won’t be tempted to settle.

As you shift, the people you experience chemistry with will change. And the reality of the love you GET will outshine even the richest fantasy you’ve had about someone from your past. (This is why people who do my work describe constant “pinch me” moments as they manifest soulmate love!) Keep your eye on the prize and it will materialize much sooner than if you continue to spin your wheels.


love,
Kathryn

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9/30/10

Hi! Vacationing AFTER Labor Day is the best. It’s peaceful and uncrowded. We are still in Palm Springs soaking up the sun, taking a breath after a busy summer and deciding our next moves in life. Triple digit temps are forcing us to have what we call "three bathing suit days:" hours in the pools & lazy river. Hot weather is not so bad when you can just throw on a bikini and go swim.

Fall has arrived and you can probably feel change in the air (well, except that summer has FINALLY just arrived in SoCal - LOL!) School has started, we’re all getting back to work and it’s a chance for a fresh start.

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How To Get Your Ex Back After A Really Bad Break Up

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Getting your ex’s attention back after a breakup may at first seem like a difficult, if not impossible…but it’s far from it. In fact, it doesn’t even have to be hard if you know what you’re doing, and I’m here to help you out in that area. Here are just a few tips for grabbing your ex’s attention and not letting it go…without ever having to actually confront him!

Tip 1: Sever contact with him as soon as you guys break up. I know that seems like an odd thing to say as a tip for getting his attention, but it actually will help to get you on his mind. One major mistake people make after a breakup is to stay too close…regular contact keeps the two from being affected by that old phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” By cutting off contact, you’ll actually allow your ex some real chance to miss you, and you’ll end up being on his mind as much as he’s on yours…after all, doesn’t not being with him put HIM at the top of your mind?

Tip 2: Use this time to make yourself look as good as absolutely possible. It may seem like a shallow thing, but looking better than ever is very eye-catching, and if there have been any issues you’ve been griping about or wanting to fix but never did, now’s a great time to take care of them now. Doing so shows a motivation and drive to improve yourself that no number of 3AM phone calls and text messages ever could. Not to mention, if you look hot you’ll attract other male attention and spur on a little of that “hey that’s mine” jealousy.

Tip 3: Keep yourself in the social light. Stay active out in the real world, and look like you’re moving on without him just fine. Even more than looking good, doing well without your ex is a great way to almost frustrate him for being without you. It’s an odd thing, but when you break up with your ex you almost expect them to go to pieces…and when they don’t, it’s unsettling. Strangely enough, it’s almost attractive. It’ll definitely get you on his mind again.

So these are just a few tips and tricks, but if you’ve been thinking them through you’ll find that they won’t just help you get your ex’s attention…they’ll also help you get more enjoyment out of life. I recommend these ideas to anybody just getting out of a relationship whether you intend to get your ex back or not…even though they’ll certainly help you to do that should that be your choice.

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How Do I Get My Ex Back After a Bad Breakup

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Are you wondering "How Do I Get My Ex Back After a Bad Breakup"? A big fight, a slow whimper, whatever the case, its over, they are gone and youre alone. So now, you are wondering What to do. You ask yourself, "How do I get my ex back?" while pondering the breakup situation. Well there is no single guaranteed way to get your ex back after a difficult breakup.

But there are some things you can try. First off write down some of the things that you feel may have caused the breakup. Ask yourself open ended questions. Did I pay attention to their needs? Did I make an effort to truly give my affection and attention to them? These are the beginnings in order to understand how you can get your ex back.

Once you have some answers, invite them to a neutral meeting place. Ask them the same open ended questions you asked yourself and listen to their response. If you have to write the questions down before meeting with your ex, then do that. Just let them know honestly and openly that you would like to be involved in their life again. And wait for the response. Dont respond emotionally either. If they are angry let them blow up. If they gush all over you remain calm. If there is room, apologize.


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Work through whatever they mention and with patience work on loving them. Dont be overly affectionate at first, ease back into things. Show them you are apologetic by your actions if they pinpointed something in which you failed (Your forgetful of important dates for ex.) Actively work on it and be open to their criticism. They may be brutal at first, but dont respond in like manner. Take it in and tell them you appreciate their perspective even if you really dont.

Over time they should warm up to you. If you can prove your self faithful in listening and being understanding you should have them back in your life. But guard yourself so you dont repeat the same mistakes. You dont want to be asking how do I get my ex back again.

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They never call me back!

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The answer to this weeks question may seem weird but its amazingly powerful.
Enjoy!

love,
Kathryn


Q: Kathryn, I met a guy recently through a friend, and we really seemed to click. We went out, and it went well. We made out a little bit, and I even thought perhaps he could be the One. He just had so much that I was looking for.

He said hed call, but Ive waited and waited. And he has never asked me out again. Ive tried to find out what happened through my friend, but I dont want to seem pushy and we dont talk that often.

This is a pattern for me. Its happened more than once, and Im baffled and hurt.

Why did he not call? Is it me?! Did I do something wrong? What can I do to avoid this ever, ever happening again?

A: Youre not alone. I hear this kind of story all the time. Its a pattern caused by your energy and the way you date.

Imagine exuding an energy to get a man you really like, to desire you, fall for you, and feel like he cannot wait to pin you down for another date.

Imagine being able to make a man who has lost interest in you suddenly perk up when he sees you.

Imagine dating so well that you get lots of interest, and very quickly seal the deal with The One.

You may know this is something I teach, and its why I have a huge wall of weddings -- of people who, like you, had a bad dating pattern and felt there was something wrong with them.

So what is the wildly effective method to never repeat this pattern again?

1. Watch your energy. If you exude even a hint of desperation, then guess what? Men sense it and change their mind about you even if they liked you at first. Desperation repels.

Theres something I teach called the Levels of Attraction, and if youre at Soulmate Level, you will never, ever have this experience again and go quickly into love. This is something revealed in my Soulmate Bootcamp.

You will never look at love the same way once you know this secret.

2. Also, check yourself to see if dating disempowers you. All sorts of confidence issues and insecurities arise when you are dating.

The quality Ive dubbed the "Universal Attractant" is confidence. As you gain it -- and there is a proven way to do so -- then all of sudden people come out of the woodwork interested in you.

One key to my high success rate in love is instilling in people an awareness of who they are and teaching them how to date in a confident way. It makes ALL of the difference.

3. Whats your script?

If you keep getting the same results over and over -- like a fizzled romance that seemed promising, youve got an undesirable script that we have to get rid of.



A script is an energy we have about us that teaches people how to treat us. We have different scripts in different parts of our lives and in dating, no doubt your script could use some tweaking.

The "Universal Attractant Kit" program includes a bonus called "Changing Your Script" that shows you how to alter your script for immediate and very fun results.

One woman who had always been ignored had 3 guys begging for her number when she dropped by a party for only an hour.

I bless you for getting beyond this pattern.

Youll be surprised at how quickly you can change everything with these 3 tweaks.

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How to Get Your Boyfriend Back After a Bad Break Up

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How to Get Your Boyfriend Back After a Bad Break Up. The following steps will outline some basic things that you can do to win your ex back. Just keep in mind that as all relationships and people are a bit different you will have to apply these tips in your own way for them to work as well as they can. If you put your own touch on them and see how they can work in your situation then there is no doubt that you can get your love back.

The first and most important piece of advice is the power of forgiveness. If you are able to forgive your ex for their wrongs against you then the weight of all of those misgivings will be taken off your shoulders. This can make a big difference is your general mood and outlook and will give you the inner strength to take on bigger challenges in the future. If, however, your ex has done something you consider unforgivable then it is probably best that you go your separate ways. Forgive if it is at all possible.

Dont be afraid to take the initiative! If your strategy amounts to nothing more than waiting around until your love calls you or wants to set up a meeting then you could lose them. Perhaps theyre doing the same thing or maybe they consider the relationship lost. Whatever the reason there is just no reason for you to sit around waiting for them to come back if you really want them back. You may feel scared and unsure, but it is worth the risk to put yourself out there and tell them how you feel.

Dont overdo things at the beginning! When you first begin talking to each other again it is important not to overdo it and scare them off. Avoid sending him a bunch of text messages all the time or trying to call him every day. Some women go overboard with this stuff and it starts to border on stalking. Leaving tons of voice-mails and texts to be read will just make you look desperate and will certainly push him away. Initially, speaking a few times or even just once a week will be enough.

Finally, another great thing to do is simply to improve yourself and make yourself more attractive. If youve been putting off getting fit, some new clothes, or even an activity you enjoy now is the time to do it. You could also get involved in something you know he enjoys, giving you an excuse to meet up with each other. Have fun and enjoy yourself and you will become irresistible to him.

Applying these ideas in your own way to your own life can and has worked before. If you truly care about your love and the relationship you have together these ideas are a great way to start working on getting back together.

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Soulmate Level

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 Soulmate level is the place you want to be in your energy & in your expectations to attract the love of your life (and nothing else). Once you open to it, the fastest way to manifest is to keep it at that level. Many of you who write without instant manifestation have reverted to old ways, where soulmate love is less likely to happen.

Here are tips on how to stay at Soulmate Level:

 1. Stay hopeful. When you first are exposed to my work, you get very positive about love. Unfortunately, friends can naysay you into doubt again. Or your own pattern of negativity may reassert itself. Continue to find tools to stay upbeat about love and you will remain a powerful beacon of light for your One.

2. Continue to release anything that has blocked or delayed love from you. Likely culprits are an old love you’re hanging onto, limiting beliefs about romance or a pattern of self-judgment. If you’re done any of my work, you know how to release. Keep re-releasing until any delay is gone.

3. Don’t look too hard or do back flips for soulmate love. If you are trying to be everywhere to increase your chances for romance or doing soulmate exercises to the point of exhaustion, you are working it to the point of disconnect. Be mellow, do what is fun and remember there are no odds about soulmate love because it is not random chance that brings you together. It is a magnetization that cannot be denied.

4. Quit digging up that plant! For most who do my work, soulmate love shows up out of nowhere. One minute it looks like a dating desert, the next minute you are happily in love. So if you bothered to go by “appearance” and got discouraged because nothing had shown up yet, you wasted your time. In fact, you can shoot yourself in the foot by digging up the plant too early to see if it’s blossoming. In others, making an assessment that it hasn’t happened and concluding it won’t is counterproductive because you get discouraged. Better to see with the eyes of faith, notice how positive you remain and conclude that change is happening on the inner NOW and love is on its way to you.

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Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

Hi! I’m just about to celebrate a major birthday. Family are flying in each day and we are taking the party to Palm Springs this weekend. But I wanted to say “hi” and give a shoutout to the many of you who just discovered my work at Agape’s bursting-at-the-seams workshop last Friday (150 people showed up).

Now that you’re open to soulmate love, read on to find out how to keep it at that level.

 Summer is heating up, and I bless you for a hot love life!

 love & support,

 Kathryn

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