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The answer to this weeks question may seem weird but its amazingly powerful.
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love,
Kathryn
Q: Kathryn, I met a guy recently through a friend, and we really seemed to click. We went out, and it went well. We made out a little bit, and I even thought perhaps he could be the One. He just had so much that I was looking for.
He said hed call, but Ive waited and waited. And he has never asked me out again. Ive tried to find out what happened through my friend, but I dont want to seem pushy and we dont talk that often.
This is a pattern for me. Its happened more than once, and Im baffled and hurt.
Why did he not call? Is it me?! Did I do something wrong? What can I do to avoid this ever, ever happening again?
A: Youre not alone. I hear this kind of story all the time. Its a pattern caused by your energy and the way you date.
Imagine exuding an energy to get a man you really like, to desire you, fall for you, and feel like he cannot wait to pin you down for another date.
Imagine being able to make a man who has lost interest in you suddenly perk up when he sees you.
Imagine dating so well that you get lots of interest, and very quickly seal the deal with The One.
You may know this is something I teach, and its why I have a huge wall of weddings -- of people who, like you, had a bad dating pattern and felt there was something wrong with them.
So what is the wildly effective method to never repeat this pattern again?
1. Watch your energy. If you exude even a hint of desperation, then guess what? Men sense it and change their mind about you even if they liked you at first. Desperation repels.
Theres something I teach called the Levels of Attraction, and if youre at Soulmate Level, you will never, ever have this experience again and go quickly into love. This is something revealed in my Soulmate Bootcamp.
You will never look at love the same way once you know this secret.
2. Also, check yourself to see if dating disempowers you. All sorts of confidence issues and insecurities arise when you are dating.
The quality Ive dubbed the "Universal Attractant" is confidence. As you gain it -- and there is a proven way to do so -- then all of sudden people come out of the woodwork interested in you.
One key to my high success rate in love is instilling in people an awareness of who they are and teaching them how to date in a confident way. It makes ALL of the difference.
3. Whats your script?
If you keep getting the same results over and over -- like a fizzled romance that seemed promising, youve got an undesirable script that we have to get rid of.
A script is an energy we have about us that teaches people how to treat us. We have different scripts in different parts of our lives and in dating, no doubt your script could use some tweaking.
The "Universal Attractant Kit" program includes a bonus called "Changing Your Script" that shows you how to alter your script for immediate and very fun results.
One woman who had always been ignored had 3 guys begging for her number when she dropped by a party for only an hour.
I bless you for getting beyond this pattern.
Youll be surprised at how quickly you can change everything with these 3 tweaks.
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