Dont Believe Me Just Watch!!

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Dont Believe Me, Just Watch!

Q: Kathryn, it is super hard to stay positive when all my friends keep shooting down my hopes for love. Theyre just so negative. And say my prospects are slim.

They get mad that I wont settle. And think I shouldnt hope for much.

How can I deal with this? So far, I get discouraged more and more of the time.

A: Let me tell you a story that will help.

Edie is one of my coaches and first discovered my work going through a divorce.

She was not exactly a spring chicken and was very fearful about finding love.

She did not want to grow old alone and yet her experience of love had been hurtful so she was scared about recreating that.

Friends and family told her to set her bar low, that at her age, she couldnt expect much.

This unthinking words made her even more fearful. After her painful divorce, she did not want to go through any more.

This is not uncommon.

When youre single, every fear that you wont find love or will have to settle will come up.

When I was single, I remember some of the hurtful things people told me:

"At your age, dont expect a good looking guy."

"All guys are having sex. Youll never find someone who is not involved, do dont even expect it."

I remember having to distance myself from one negative friend. It was just too hard when I was already feeling so vulnerable.

Edie went through the same gauntlet of naysaying and doubt.

Its something she and I had to overcome.

She healed from her past, and became strong, increasingly immune to her own fears and the negativity of others.

So to answer your question, the best way to deal with naysayers is the following:

1) Become increasingly immune to others who are negative

2) Keep hope in your heart and be careful about who you share your dreams with

3) Stay hopeful. Keep the faith

4) Do work that will back you up and fight against the deluge of naysaying you may encounter

5) Dont settle but keep your standard high

6) Build yourself up and remember you are a catch.

Edie and I worked on this together, and then, she met John. Not only is he an educated, handsome man but he is kind and adores her.

After dating for about a year, he proposed on Christmas Eve. In her 60s, Edie has experienced more romance than she could ever have dreamed of.
The newly married Edie & John

At their wedding, John thanked me several times for my support of him and their relationship.

He is truly in love with Edie and feels like he won the jackpot. She does, too. Everyone at the wedding was moved by their love.

At the reception, we all laughed when the song "Uptown Funk" was played. The chorus says:

"Dont believe me, just watch"

It was Edies victory dance -- that despite the naysaying, she triumphed and got what she wanted.

I hope youll vow to dance that same dance of triumph at your own wedding. You can!

All it takes it developing your faith that yes, you, too, can find love. Add to that ignoring the naysayers and doing some opening to love.

And you, too, will be singing "Dont believe me, just watch!" at your own nuptials.

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Never had a long term relationship

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This weeks Q & A is from someone who has had trouble having any lasting relationships at all.




Q: Kathryn, the longest relationship I ever had was just a few months. And that was in my 20s. Now Im turning 40, and its been a long time since Ive had a relationship that lasts longer than 6 weeks.

What is wrong with me?! Im losing faith that Ill ever find someone, and yet, I want a husband and children while I still have a chance at that. Is there any hope for me?

A: You have every hope for love! I have a client getting married in a few weeks who came to me with your exact issue. Walking her beyond her pattern was what changed everything for her.

If I were working with you, heres how we would solve this issue for you.

1. Wed look into your past and see if you are hanging on to old trauma or if you have been equating love with hurt. Wed look for whatever your block is and treat it.

2. We would work to line you up with love completely. I suspect you have a fear or misconception that has you torn about love. We need to let go of anything that is in conflict within. Things like this can hold love away.

3. I would make SURE you know youre lovable and worthy of a lasting love.

4. Finally, we would lay in some new patterns for you -- of thinking, of behavior in connecting with attractive people and of dealing with the inevitable bumps in the road as you date.

This protocol has been super effective in my work. Its responsible for my ever-expanding wall of weddings.

Much of it you can do yourself. But many times, we have a blind spot, which keeps us in a frustrating pattern like yours. What can help is either a love coach or possibly my Soulmate Bootcamp -- a program that has worked with many holdouts, who have almost give up on love.

Its on sale next week for our birthday sale, so stay tuned for that and take a look at it in the meantime.

I support you in finding love. You can and you will!

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How to get your ex back

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At long last (and I know youve been asking for a while), weve released the 5th and final video in my Breakup Recovery series just today.

This one is called "How to Get Your Ex Back" and you can find it here:

We have this weird phenomenon of peoples former flames coming back when they do my release process. 

Yes, you can get them back, but should you? 

Be warned that only 10% of the time does it STICK.

Enjoy!

love,
Kathryn

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Prophetic Words Why Do People Want Them

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By Carmine Wallace

A lot of people on planet earth today say that they want to help someone to grow into a new person. These people are often referred to as prophetic ministers. You will often find them in churches giving prophecy to people that are open to receiving information.

Its important to put your trust in someone that is always going to be three for you. Many men and women say that psychics are often there for you when you least expect. It is not uncommon for people to call a spiritual adviser at 2:00 a.m. because they have something on their mind.

Some religious cultures encourage prophecy and others do not. Many people refer to prophets as psychics or vice versa. Today, there is a huge movement in the spiritual adviser category. Many astrology websites are popping up all over the place offering people advice such as: love, money and career. It is not uncommon to hear of a prophetic minister saying that they are helping someone to grow. It is important to note that love happens when we least expect. Love is universal and we must learn from it.

It is important to note that a prophetic reading often opens up our mind. We often see it as being something beneficial for our lives. We are often sad about something and hope that a prophet will just tell us what it is. Amazingly, prophetic ministers feel a calling to help us because of something that we are going through.

Once the mediums choose someone to help, the people often cry and say, "Yes, I know who it is that you are talking about." Often, psychics tell people information that changes their life forever. People that have not heard from a deceased loved one in years now get confirmation that they are doing well on the other side.

A psychic reading is beneficial for people because it actually gives us encouragement. When we feel encouraged to do something, a little voice awakens for us in our lives. This little voice often tells us that everything is going to be alright. Spiritual advisers are often there to listen to us at early hours in the morning when everyone else is asleep.

In a world full of pain and sorrow, prophetic ministers seem to make hurt go away. They talk to us when we are feeling sad or tell us that something positive is coming into our lives. If we have negative energy, they try to remove it for us. Yes, it is a hard battle at times, but they know how to make us feel happy.

You will eventually come to notice that spiritual gifts are life changing. People often thank a clairvoyant after their session is over with because they got helped in some way, shape or form. Nobody knows exactly why the human spirit heals. All that we know is that we have long lasting benefits because of it.

About the Author:

Our website offers free psychic readings to our visitors. These spiritual insights give people a look into their romantic and financial lives. A psychic reading is meant to open our eyes to the spiritual universe. It helps us to see that a spiritual entity is looking over us. Many people use tarot cards and runes charts to map out information. Clairvoyance is also popular.

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Dont Build Walls To Protect Yourself

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By Evan Sanders

"Before I built a wall Id ask to know, what I was walling in or walling out?" - Robert Frost

When you ask people about walls and what they are good at, they will usually answer somewhere along the lines of, "They are good at keeping things out."

That is certainly true. And then I ask, "What else are they good at doing?" You wouldnt believe the dead silence that usually comes back my way.

Thinking. Thinking. Thinking. Uh...Alright so Ill give it to you. As good as walls are for keeping things out, they also do a damn good job of keeping things in. Ahhhh. Yes.

This is where we get into trouble. We get into a ton of trouble because whenever we start hurting in life we build our walls higher and higher to protect ourselves.

And unfortunately, when you are trying to keep out the negative, you are also keeping in the positive. Remember those gifts youve been given? They never get to come out to play. They stay trapped inside because you have created a bit of a prison for yourself.

It gets worse. Since you didnt build any doors...because why would you ever want to give the negative emotions a weak spot in the wall to exploit, youve failed to create any form of fire escape.

As life would have it, it loves to create a little bit of chaos once you think you are safe. It will find its way into your "protected" zone and start a few fires here and there. Then, since you have no escape, you will watch everything burn straight to the ground.

Walls are pretty bad for you. They can tear you apart.

When you shut yourself off from experience life in its fullest and everything that the world has to offer you arent really living. Youre just having an experience of surviving. Youre doing whatever it takes to get by but not really out there in the world thriving.

These walls that youve built served you at one time in protecting your heart, but now they are just hurting you. They are hurting you because you cant grow from that trapped place anymore. You cant experience what you need to experience to help you continue to develop. The negative emotions stay out (for the most part) but those positive qualities that you have - the potential that you have discovered - those stay in.

They will never come out when you are living safe inside of your comfort zone.

Thats the dead honest truth. You must tear down the walls if you really want to live an outrageously amazing experience in this world.

Scary? Yes of course. But 10 times out of 10 I would rather be on the field of life living than stuck in my own mental prison dying.

Tear down the walls. Take a risk.

About the Author:

Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME coaching. Dive into these great Quotes About Being Happy http://thewordsofencouragement.com/quotes-about-being-happy/ or these Patience Quotes http://thewordsofencouragement.com/patience-quotes/ to get some motivation to move forward!

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