Spiritual Love Advice Getting It Makes Sense

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By Oliver Charley

Love is hard to find. We often walk through life wondering if someone loves us or if we are all alone in the universe today. When we look at our love life, we should see it as a benefit to who we are and where we are going. Many people tell me that love is something that is not easy to get on your own. You often need help from a love psychic to get it.

Love psychics say that burning a red candle at least once a day for an hour will bring love closer to you. These love signals will go out into the spirit world and get information for you. This information can help you to progress and to find love unconditionally. It is important to see life as being a new beginning for yourself. People need to understand that in life, we have to be honest with ourselves. Do we have love to offer and why.

How do you know if someone is just out to use you and then later on break your heart? Spiritual advisers are often good at predicting the future in your circumstance. Many love experts say that they are aware of the pain that is happening in todays complex world. Love often hurts people because they see their life as being negatively impacted by someone else hurting them. Learning to accept love takes both time and guidance.

Bad luck is often associated with poor love. This is something that a lot of women begin to understand over time. Often in high school, you think that love will always be there. You often feel that you are too young to get married and that someday you will become a bride. However, many young women that are in their twenties are finding this not to be the case. Psychics often open your eyes up to love early on in the game.

Many love psychics teach us to hold onto love when you find it. Even if you are 18 years old, you should not let go of your love interest. The reason for this is that you may never find it again. Finding love often takes discipline and a careful attention to detail. When you look at love and life, you begin to feel like you are being molded into someone that is beneficial for someone else. You will learn over time that love is a two way street.

Love is something that is hurtful at times. If you have ever been in a relationship, you know what I am talking about. Many people actually give up on romance after they see it not working in their own personal life. However, it is never wise to give up on anything. That only causes us to feel sad and depressed. Anger often comes into play when we dont get what we want.

If you enjoy speaking with a psychic adviser, you can do so over the telephone. They often tell us what we should be doing and not doing at the same time. Spiritual advisers also offer us sessions in person as well. You should always be honest with yourself and the person that is reading for you. If you dont believe that love will ever come your way, let someone know about it. Often when you get something off your chest, you begin to feel a lot happier.

There is a challenge that most people have in their lives when it comes to love. Many women ask themselves if they can trust a guy that is saying he is being faithful. Other questions are, "How can I tell if he really wants to be with me forever?" There are many questions that go on in our minds. It is always best to consult a spiritual adviser about them.

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Choosing The Right Plastic Surgeon For You

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By Christopher Lewis

More and more people are now turning to cosmetic surgeries because of its benefits. One of those amazing benefits is getting a youthful look after the operation. With the help of the latest advancements today, everything seems to be a lot easier. The real importance of this surgery cannot be eliminated in the system. Once performed by experts, you will be able to get the desired results such as improving your life, enhancing your overall well being, and a perfect body shape.

Cosmetic surgical procedures can be performed for many reasons. One of the purposes is to correct deformities. It can be utilized to correct deformities on your body or face. Moreover, this operation can also be used in enhancing the overall appearance of your body parts, revitalize and rejuvenate your skin. Selecting the right plastic surgeon Edmonton is important to get all those results.

The success of any procedure will also give you greater confidence and feel like yourself for the years to come. Moreover, choosing an inexperienced doctor may only increase the chances of getting poor outcomes which might lead to additional heartache, time, and expenses. Looking for a certified doctor who has the knowledge, skills, and experience in the process is crucial of getting the outcome you desire.

The truth is, cosmetic surgery is a dream pursued by so many that can give them a new look. In all those years of preparing financially for the procedure, a lot of people overlook the mental preparation. Once you dream about this operation for a long time, before taking this big decision, they get scared and nervous about the outcome which is often natural.

There are many things to prepare for this surgery. Just like other surgical operations, cosmetic or plastic surgery also needs you to make some preparations both mentally and physically. You should be aware of the possible health complications linked with the operation. In general, the operation is not advisable for patients with high blood pressures, heart problems, and obesity as well as those who have weak immune system, depression, and diabetes.

Aside from that, before undergoing the procedure, you should always maintain your diet and stay away from using substances such as drugs, alcohol, and cigarettes. If you have nutrition deficiencies, make sure to consume nutritional supplements and vitamins. Be sure to limit caffeine consumption and stop taking over the counter drugs as they may interact the blood clotting process.

It is actually true that there are some risks associated with the surgical operation. Although complications are rare to occur, but bruising may develop many cases. Numbness, bleeding, and infection may also happen. Lastly, the procedure may enhance the overall physical look and may give endless benefits. Just be sure to consult a surgeon first prior to the operation to understand potential risks.

And since you will spend your time with your doctor before, during, and after the procedure, make sure to feel comfortable when working with them. Any surgical operation is a big deal. Through the process, you want to ensure that you will be served and treated properly.

Knowing and understanding everything about the procedure is always important to obtain the results you want. Just be sure to choose the right surgeon and facilities to ensure quality result and get the look you desire.

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Soulmate Love Miracles

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August 3, 2012

Sailing in Cabo

Whew, am I glad to be home after 8 weeks of almost constant travel: Vegas, San Diego, Cabo, San Francisco, Seattle & Alaska! I have barely left the house in a few days. I cannot complain because Alaska was breath-taking and fun, and it was SO nice to meet many of you this summer during my teaching tour.

Flying Over Mt. McKinley (with oxygen!)

It is quite a summer. We’ve got a lot of engagements, weddings, pregnancies and babies from my followers, including one close to home – a wonderful wedding of someone I love who at age 53, is getting married for the first time, and it is a FAIRY TALE!

Read on for some inspiration. I asked a single friend what would help her the most in keeping the faith, and she said she wanted some hopeful stories. So that’s what you’ll find below.

Meanwhile, if you are new to my work and want to keep going with it or just need a boost, look for our 72 Hour Summer Sale next week. We don’t have that many sales, and they’re always juicy with big savings [put link to Shop page here] and some bonuses thrown in.

And if you’d like to go more portable – not waiting until retirement to take your dream trips – then sign up for the FREE teleseminar. I’m doing in a few weeks with my husband Jon for our Portable Lifestyle [do general link to website] company. Sign up here [link again]

Have a wonderful end of summer!

Love,

Kathryn

Soulmate Miracles

• From the 84 year old who recently got married to the very overweight woman fielding 3 proposals to the person with cancer complete with a bald head falling in love and then becoming cancer-free – I have lots of evidence that love knows no bounds.

• If you have been telling yourself the most common lie I’ve seen – that somehow you are left out of love – then, you will be hard put to find evidence to back that up. No, you are not the only single person in the universe who wants love but is somehow left out.

• Remember that if you have a desire for love in your heart, then you get it. You are not meant for love to dangle in front of you, always out of reach.

• You’ve simply given up too easily. But no matter your age, your physical situation or any other false limit you concoct, love is still yours. Those of us who have to wait longer get the very BEST love stories in the end and also get to be happiest, because it’s something we’ll never take for granted.

• My charge to you is to look for the hope. Gather love stories – from my work and anywhere you can – to bring you back to faith. Look for signs to tell you that love is coming for you, and you will see them everywhere. As you gain even a glimmer of reassurance, you will be in the arms of your “person” before you know it. I bless you for just that!

To dive into this work and make love happen faster, look for our 72 Hour Sale August 7 – 9 for some MAJOR savings and bonuses not gained any other way. It’s the perfect time to get the effective 30 Day Soulmate Bootcamp at big discount.

Heartbreak Corner: Release is All You Need

Love is like a cork you are somehow keeping down. All it takes is letting go of any attachment – to bad beliefs, despair and most especially to a person – to have that cork rise and love to appear.

I got reminded of this a few years ago when I was a keynote speaker at a conference. I was walking through the corridor, and I heard someone yelling to me “Kathryn, KATHRYN!” I slowed down and turned to see a women hurrying over to me with a toddler on her hip.

 Breathlessly, she thanked me for my Releasing a PersonCD. She pointed to the child she was carrying (at which point I noticed she was pregnant, too!), explaining that he would not exist if not for my releasing work. It turns out she had been in a tortuous long-term, frustrating relationship when someone gave her my CD. She listened to it for 2 weeks straight and could feel herself shifting out of the miserable attachment, at long last.

A month later, she met her husband, and they quickly moved into a relationship so drama-free and amazing that it took a while for her to realize that it wasn’t too good to be true. The rest has been history. Commitment, engagement, marriage, a baby, another on the way, and happiness that she confessed she could not have dreamed of while in that bad relationship.

Moral of Story: no matter how hopeless you have been, a new beginning awaits you just on the other side of attachment. You just need to let go for that cork to bob right up to the surface.

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Get Rid Of Your Should

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By Evan Sanders

Dangerous word...that word "should."

There are major expectations that go along with the word "should." There are great amounts of suffering that attach to that word as well.

That word can do a lot of damage in your life and keep you stuck completely in the past.

Maybe youve heard yourself say this before...

"This should have gone down in a very different way."

Truth is, it didnt go that way.

When you stay in the land of should, you are stuck in the past or the future.

When you have a "should" that is living in the past, you arent fully able to come to terms with what is actually going on in your life. You think that it should have gone some way it didnt actually go and that brings a great amount of pain and suffering to your life because you cant accept the reality of the situation.

So what do we need to do? Come back to the present moment.

When your "should" lives in the future, you are limiting yourself to a very shallow way of seeing into a land that is completely unknown and foreign to you. "It should happen like this." And if it doesnt? Usually there is a feeling of being let down or disappointed in what actually did happen.

You have to keep coming back to the present moment.

We are all going to have incredibly painful times in our lives that are going to make us want to project an experience onto a life we really have real idea of whats going to happen. Thats ok in some ways, but the reality is you have to come back to living in the mystery of the present moment.

These dark times will always be there.

But endless suffering comes with being unable to accept the truth fully.

So you have to look at it like this - what happened happened and it couldnt have gone down any other way. q

And if you let go of the future, and come back to this moment?

You get to live in the present. You get to live in knowing that life is going to take care of you no matter what happens.

"Should" doesnt exist anymore.

No living in the past...because weve accepted it.

No living in the future anymore because you are here in this moment.

Youre here.

Stay connected.

Live in a world of acceptance.

About the Author:

Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME coaching. Dive into these great Bible Verses or these Hope Quotes to get some motivation to move forward!

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Skip the Despair!

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May 20, 2012

What a magical day our wedding was!

It has been busy, busy with Jon and I celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary, his birthday, Mothers Day and baseball games. What a whirlwind this marriage has been! Two babies, two times around the world, a book, a business and much more. It still feels fresh and exciting, which I consider one of the hallmarks of soulmate love (you get this, too!)


Finally, I dont care if youve been single for 35 years -- which is the case for one of the recent success stories to join my "wall of weddings." You have every hope for love. And even when youre completely discouraged and ready to give up, it doesnt change the fact that there is someone for you. Read on for 3 reasons why you need not despair.


love,
Kathryn

3 Reasons You Can Skip the Despair

How many times have I heard someone say "Im ready to give up" or "I just cant do this any more" in regards to their love lives? Pretty regularly. I know it can be hard when your love life seems to be a "dating desert" or when youve been on your 15th disappointing coffee from match.com.

You just dont have any more energy for getting knocked down again. No one does it for you. And if you meet someone interesting, theyre either married or indifferent. Meanwhile, youre kicking yourself for screwing it up with your ex, because (s)he may be the best you can ever hope for.

None of this changes the fact that you get love. There is someone looking for you right this minute. Here are 3 reasons why you need not despair.

1. Remember its a process. Every dissapointing date, every minute youve got a vacuum where love can come in (which can look like feeling lonely), brings you closer to love. Does a 1-year-old put their head in their hands and weep when they fall down for the 20th time in their quest to walk? Not usually. They just try again. Youre well along your journey to love, so get up and keep going!

2. You get to be happiest. If you have waited a while for love, youre the one who will never take it for granted when it comes. You held out for the Real Deal, your One, and it will be worth the wait. You didnt settle. And it will pay off as you pass everyone you know in the love department.

3. Love can happen in an instant. For all you know, you may meet someone today or tomorrow. Love is not like a career where you experience a steady progress to success. You go from 0 to 90 in a single second. One minute, youre alone and the next minute, youre giddily in love, making plans for a life together. So, no matter how bleak it may look at the moment, it can and will change quickly.

Besides all of the above, despair can delay your progress, and we dont want THAT, right? So, chin up! You still have every hope for love, and I support you in remaining open and positive.

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Your Mental Power Right Now

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By Paul Tonia

Every person faces loneliness from time to time. It is never easy to feel like you are all alone in this world. It is puzzling to many people. It is hard to face a daily challenge of feeling like nobody cares. Often, people turn to alcohol and drugs for comfort. It is always there for you and it often brings you to a feeling of happiness. You need to take your own accord and figure out what is working for you and against you.

When you look at your life, you often feel like anything can happen. We often see the light inside of our hearts as being easy to control. There is a lot of strong effort gained when you take on new challenges and work within a mindset that actually makes you a believer. I have seen many people healed through strong graces that have come into their lives. I think that its important to see a new beginning for your life. When we see something new, we begin to focus on the challenges that are in back of us. I see life as being a new beginning and approach.

Look at your own balance and ask yourself if you understand where and what bothers you. For the most part, it is a huge list of circumstances that effect our everyday moods. I like to look at life and feel like there is a challenge that grows. We can all look back at ourselves and see that change was a part of the day to day routine. Most people look at life and feel like their change is possible for various reasons.

I think that in life, you have to look for ways to take on new challenges. Challenges are never easy to face. They come to us in small doses and act like a light at times. It is important to ask yourself if you can easily let go of the past and move onto something that will make you feel more at peace with yourself. Take on new challenges and dont be afraid.

Learn to love your life so that your entire well-being can be helped. We all need to have a little bit of love in our lives from time to time. Focusing on what we need is often the best way for someone to travel into their own dimension. You need to have a basis in which you can discuss new foundations in life. Life is something that so few people know anything about. When you look at life, you begin to feel a sense of balance and change. Change happens when we are left smiling at a new beginning. In life, there is always a sense of change and a sense that everything is going to be okay in the end.

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Visitors to our site will get a live psychic reading 24 hours daily. Our company encourage you to ask questions about love, spirituality and money. Our company offers a 1st time free psychic reading on the internet. Our site has many blog posts for you to read about astrology, numerology and horoscopes.

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Your Own Life Is Actually Psychic In Nature

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By Zeldin Lisa

Our spiritual gifts have a way of letting us know that God is with us. Many people in the world today are asking themselves where God is. It is hard for a lot of people to imagine that we have the ability to communicate with the spiritual world. Many psychics today use clairvoyant gifts in order to see into the past, present and future. There are a lot of people today that claim to be able to see the dead and move objects with their mind as well. Is it possible? Nobody really knows for sure. However, many psychics over the centuries have proven themselves to be accurate. Even the late Edgar Cayce made startling predictions that have now come to pass.

Psychics have an interesting way of looking at things. They often see into the future better than most people. They can see into the past, present and future for a variety of reasons. When someone looks into the future, they see power and a new breath of air. Life in general helps us to see that something new is out there for us. We must look at our life and know that we can help others with our gifts.

I once did a psychic reading for someone and it came true. It is amazing to see a prediction coming true when you know nothing about the person. Some people can really predict the future almost 99% of the time. Their high accuracy makes people think that there is a spiritual world out there that we cannot see. We know that it exists and it helps us to see the light in all things. I think that in life, you have to understand the spirit world and work towards a specific goal. Everything in life matters today. We have to see it for ourselves and take into account all that has happened to us in different ways. I think that people in general have to see success in their own way. I think that in life, there is a lot more at stake. We need to look at what we have and smile.

Psychics often teach us to examine our own heart. They tell us to be truthful in what we want to know about ourselves. I cant think of anything better than to ask myself what is most important. I think that in life, you have to be happy with what you got. Sometimes in life, we dont expect everything to go right. Our negative thinking often leads us to believe that everything is just bad. This could not be further from the truth. In reality, we begin to trust in things that do matter to us and in time, its all about our mindset feeling a sense of joy.

If you take a look at your life, ask yourself when youre most psychic moment was. What were you doing and how was it paranormal for you? Many people see deceased loved ones in their visions and dreams. I think that its cool to connect with a relative that you have not seen in years through a dream. They often have secret messages for us and communicate the truth.

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We offer mediums and psychics a way to use their clairvoyant gifts with our customers. Psychics and mediums tend to offer us a good view on our romantic lives. They can often tell you who your partner is and when you can expect to get married. You will find that astrologers are in high demand on our website. We post daily articles about the metaphysical arts as well.

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A MUST DO Right Now!! Before 2012

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Thursday, December 29th, 2012

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I am in this 2012 release by Lionsgate. Its going to be a GREAT year!!

??Hi! As 2011 is coming to a close, I have never seen more "stuff" coming up for those I work with. Theres no doubt it is a big time of change. Expectations for 2012 are rightly HIGH, so it makes sense that things are on the move in our lives.

There has never been a more important time to do what needs to be done, so keep reading to find out what I mean by that.

Meanwhile, if you have not done so yet, sign up for the FREE intention-setting teleseminar Im doing next week. You will find out how to capitalize on the energy of change that is in the air to zoom into what you want in 2012. To gain access to this free event, sign up here.

And LAST CHANCE for the 9 pay option for our June 2012 Teacher Training is TOMORROW. If you are at all interested, check it out now while you can get a low payment plan and substantial discount. I’m training & certifying a small group to formally teach my work as a career move. If you have any thoughts of being in that select group, check it out TODAY here.

This career path is unlike others that are similar because you gain my tutelage, support & referrals for YEARS to come plus a business blueprint that I have never seen another training TOUCH.

Read on to find out what you can do THIS WEEK to leave any drama or limits behind once and for all. Have a great New Years celebration, and I have high hopes for you in 2012.

I am blessing your holiday season!

love,
Kathryn

A MUST DO Right Now!


I have never seen so much drama and angst during the holidays. It makes sense in a weird way. Many of us believe that 2012 will be a banner year. I am sure this is true for you.

When you are going for BIG things in your life, anything UNLIKE it -- anything that might hinder or delay your manifestation -- will come up, just to be released. In that context, it makes sense that so many are experiencing what looks like discord, change or the end of something that is painful in their lives.

Theres a great way to deal with this, perfect for right now, something that I urge you to do. Release before 2012 comes. Its something I do every year -- at sunset on New Years Eve at the beach with a group of friends. You can do this alone or with a group. Heres how:

1) Write down every single thing you DONT want to take into 2012: old experiences, bad habits, limits in your life, painful at tachments, tired patterns.

2) Take the piece(s) of paper where you listed your "releases," and shred them or burn them or both. As you do, say "I let you go!" If youre with friends, you can share what youre letting go or just gain their support without naming what it is youre releasing.

3) Seal the deal by stomping on the pieces or flushing the ashes/scraps down the toilet. This can be fun and silly (but effective).

You will feel different after undergoing this process: lighter, more free. Rituals work!

This is a powerful step of welcoming in the new. But there is further work to be done: replacing the old, the released with what you want in 2012. List your top goals, and do be there for my FREE intention-setting phone call next week. Ill show you how to set powerful intentions and make them happen. Its what has made so many of my dreams come true, and it h as worked for thousands of others, too.

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Psychics They Cant Make Something Happen Right Now

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By Pauline Maroon

If you are over the age of 30, you are probably wondering when your life is going to come together. As a 12 year old child, you envisioned yourself being married by the time you were 25 and having a dream career by your 30th birthday. However, the fantasy is now over and you are stuck living in your reality. Why does everything take so long to happen? Why cant we get what we want right now? We pray and often it seems like spirit is not hearing us. Why do these things happen all of the time?

A psychic reading can help you to see why something may be taking so long to happen. Many women call into a psychic line asking questions about their boyfriend. They want to know when he is calling and why he is taking so long to propose. Men often worry about their job and if they are in jeopardy of losing it. They wonder if they can move ahead and earn a higher wage at some point. Everyone wants to feel like there life is moving along. When people feel like there whole life is put on hold, it tends to make us feel angry.

If you read the Holy Bible, it will teach you to wait and be patient. Patience is something that most people cannot understand because of different reasons. Most people that want patience say that they dont know how to get it. It is something that must be mastered with discipline. Many psychics say that things always happen in their spiritual time. What does this mean exactly? In my opinion, it means that things dont always happen when we want them to. Instead, they happen when they are supposed to.

I believe that God has a plan for my life. I may go through times when I feel like he is not moving fast enough for me. However, later on down the road I see that things had to happen this way in order for me to see something that I was not seeing before. I find that getting psychic readings on my life help me to see that something good is going to come my way soon. Most people today are puzzled by their life. They often want to know when something is going to happen and why.

When we walk through life with patience, we begin to see that we can take our time for things to happen in our life. We dont have to rush anything. If you are working on a work project that has no sure outcome, it is best to wait and see what will happen. The human mind wants to know if we are going in the right direction. However, spirit is trying to teach you that its all just a learning process. We often cannot see that when we are in the moment. Only when we look back can we learn our lesson. Never look at your age as a factor of success. You may have had other difficulties in your life that others did not have. The important thing is accomplishing the tasks that you started out doing.

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A psychic site should educate you about the astrological arts. Our site teaches you on the highest spiritual practices of the modern day world. Kids often play psychic games to comprehend their life better. As grown ups, we often read books on life and want to learn more about our future. Everything takes time to learn and spiritual advisers help us along the way.

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Is It My Fault He Cheated On Me

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If you’ve watched the news lately you’ve probably noticed that there’s been quite a stir over who is at fault when men cheat. A prominent televangelist has suggested that part of the responsibility should be placed on the shoulder of the woman for not making the effort to overcome genetic predispositions.

While the “men are dogs” argument doesn’t fly in all corners of the Web-o-verse, it’s probably a good idea to sit back and speculate over whether there could be some truth in the idea.

Now, I’m not advocating that men cheat or that women blindly forgive men who cheat. I’m not even saying that it’s a woman’s fault her man cheats. I am not even saying that the most diligent efforts by women will prevent cheating completely.

I can definitely say that doing these two things will definitely help keep his attention focused firmly on you and make other woman almost invisible to him. Want to know what they are?

Get His Engine Running

Slip a reason for him to come home at night into his briefcase or lunchbox each day as he sets off for work. Whether it’s a snapshot, a steamy love note, or just a code word you make up together, give him a reason to come racing home after he punches out at work for the day.

And then?

Live up to the promise you made in the morning. No matter how many things happen during your day to drag you down, you MUST make good on that promise so that he’ll know what he’s likely to get each and every time you drop one of your lunchbox/briefcase hints.

Show Him Your Adoration

Among men who cheat, the overwhelming reason why has nothing to do with the physical appearance of the other woman. In fact, most men who cheat have said they do not find the other woman more attractive than their wives. She’s not thinner, leggier, bustier, and she doesn’t have a bigger butt (sorry Mix-A-Lot).

It’s not about looks at all. The real reason men cheat on their wives, and can’t really help themselves, despite the risks it involves has to do with one thing. She makes him feel adored, flattered, admired, and respected. She doesn’t roll her eyes at his corny jokes. She clings to his arms and laughs. She makes the first move. She shows interest. She goes after him and makes him feel like THE MAN. And THAT is his Kryptonite.

How do you beat this?

It may seem like a tall order, but if you work really hard and think back to the early days when you dated, you should remember all the things you used to tell him that you don’t tell him today. You brought out the best in him by showing him that you believed he was the best and he wants that feeling back. He’s trying to recapture that when he cheats. Give him that feeling at home – and give it to him often – and he’ll never have a single reason to stray.

These two things don’t require six spinning classes a day. They don’t require a second job. And, they don’t involve major personality changes. Most of these things are the sorts of things you did when you were first together and in love. Put them to work today and never worry about a cheating husband again. Is it your fault he cheated? No, but you CAN make a difference going forward.

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