I Cannot Sleep

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5/25/13

On the Cover of My First Magazine!

Hi there! I havent blogged in a while as we update my website, but I wanted to touch base since its been so long.

I’m on my summer teaching tour. The East Coast has been just amazing so far. I flew to New York to teach and officiate a wedding in Pennsylvania. (Congrats to the beautiful couple!)

Officiating the Wedding of my Coach Lisa Caroselli

We had a blast and took the boys to DC to see how the country was run, too. Weve traveled so much internationally that theyve seen more countries than U.S. states, so were working on that :-)

The Fedora Bunch on the East Coast

San Francisco is next week (see magazine cover above), and I look forward to seeing many of you for my workshops there -- theyre always crowded & fun.

Boy is love in the air! Below is a fascinating email I got about not being able to sleep.

And this person is not alone. Are you next?

Read on to find out how.

Love,

Kathryn

I Cannot Sleep

One recent email cracked me up.

Dear Kathryn, 

I’m 3 weeks into a romance just like you describe. I am exhausted. This guy isevery single thing that I want. 

I’m so worried he will slip away that I’ve got insomnia. It’s been a whirlwind, and he says all of the right things.

He cannot seem to be without me for too long. 

Is this too good to be true? Help!

This is what we call a “quality problem,” one we’d all love to have, right?

And it’s very typical of those who do my work. I get letters like this often.

If you haven’t had soulmate love yet, when it comes, it can freak you out.

If it’s so terrifying, this uncovers a problem.Those who have a hard time accepting their good are NOT UP TO SPEED with it.

Yes, they still get their love – as evidenced by my client who ended up with a panic attack in the emergency room thinking her love was leaving her while he was cooking up a proposal.

However, you can expedite your journey to love by being wide open to that One who will blow every other romance you’ve had out of the water.

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Lets Get Some Zen Into Your Life

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By Evan Sanders

Im here to help you change your life, and trust me, Im going to tell you that its going to take some serious effort. So heres my challenge to you today.

Before I ask you to do this, I want you to keep an open mind. Take on a meditation practice. Really, take it on.

Give me a minute to explain to you why this is so important in your life. Lend me your ears as they would say.

Nothing will be "gained" from taking on a meditation practice. Absolutely nothing. In fact, instead of calling it meditation, lets just call it a sitting practice.

Every single day, for at least 10 minutes a day (set a timer on your phone) sit on the floor with your legs crossed, close your eyes and focus only on your breath. I dont want you to get guided by tapes, sounds, or anything else. Just your breath.

Breath away and sit there quietly.

Now let me explain what Im really up to here.

When you sit down and focus on being in the present moment, all of the fear, doubt, worry, anxiety and anything else negative effecting your life currently begins to melt out of you. You experience a "falling away" of things instead of trying to always add something new to your life. You begin to sit in a world of simplicity instead of a world of complication.

When the thoughts and emotions fly into your head, let them. Dont get mad at them or try to get rid of them. Just focus on coming back to your breath instead of getting wrapped up in the uncontrollable.

Mediation is about learning how to come back. Thats all. Its about coming back over and over and over again no matter how many times your mind gets distracted. You keep coming back to the only moment you have, the present moment.

Really give this practice a good try. And with any practice we engage in to nourish and heal ourselves, we experience a constant falling in and a falling out of it. We miss a couple of days but then we recommit back to what we know nourishes us and take it back on again.

Always come back to your practices.

About the Author:

Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME coaching. Dive into these great Life Changing Quotes http://thewordsofencouragement.com/life-changing-quotes/ or some Motivation For Weight Loss http://thewordsofencouragement.com/motivation-for-weight-loss/ so you can have the best year of your life.

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How To Get Back My Ex All Hope Is Not Lost

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No one likes to feel the rejection of being broken up with. Here is the truth, it can be your choice if you want your ex back. You dont have to remain lonely; you dont have to worry about moving on. People act in specific ways, if you can set your pain aside for a few minutes, you can find the answer to your question how do I get back my ex.

First of all, we need some insight into what put a wedge between the two of you. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but nothing happened on a Tuesday that caused your break up. It was not a single episode or fight that caused the demise of your relationship, it was a culmination of things.

Heres a toughie, it was partially your fault. Yes, yours. I dont want you to take full blame, no one is ever 100% to blame. But you do need to accept your share. What did you do that led to the breakup?

Dont rush to your ex and start apologizing. You will apologize but not yet. Here are a couple ideas what you might be to blame for.

Ladies, you first. Is it possible you effeminized your ex? Did you hurt his ego? Were you too needy? Almost always one of these reasons are at the core.

Gentlemen, your next. What did you do or say that made your ex feel unappreciated or taken advantage of? Were you too needy? Women love a man with a sensitive side, but constantly being needy is a huge turn off for both sexes.

Now, you need to accept responsibility for your actions and or attitude. By simply identifying it, you can now change the behavior.

"Ive done this, so how do I get back my ex?"

Now you can call your ex. If they wont talk to you, hand write a letter. Agree with the separation first then let them know you have taken responsibility, and exactly what for, and apologize for it. Tell them you saw this coming, and it is for the best, wish them well in the future.

Do not initiate contact for a month, three weeks at the very least.

By following these steps, your ex will not understand your actions. The human mind is curious and most of the time your partner will contact you, as they now feel like you broke up with them. When they call, move slowly and deliberately to rebuild your love.

The get back my ex outline.

1. Take personal responsibility.

2. Send a hand written letter agreeing with the separation and apologizing.

3. Cease all contact.

By: Mark Myers

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Holiday FREE Books Some Cheer

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Dec 19, 2012

Hi, there! Were right in the middle of our week of FREE ebooks, and I thought Id make sure you know about it.

The holidays are a rough time for many, and Id love to help you out. The FREE offerings below, all new, will give you some cheer & concrete tools to get you through.

Being single through the holidays can be challenging. Family dysfunction, stress and a crowded schedule can also make it tough.

Heres a little gift from me that can help:

Tuesday, Dec 18th - FREE ebook Finding Forever Love

If you missed it, were keeping it at 99 cents for now, so you can still get it cheaply. This is a quickstart guide to my love attraction process - a simple, fast and fun read.

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Wednesday, Dec 19th - FREE ebook Releasing a Person

Let go after a break-up, a divorce or when you just cant get over an ex. This works even with an obsession.

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Thursday, Dec 20th - FREE ebook Manifest Your Soulmate

My famed process of calling in love. The "soul call" is irresistible and has worked for tens of thousands of people.

Enjoy! I send you my love & support for getting through the holidays EASILY and even having some fun!!

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Effective Ways On Dealing With Insecurities In A Relationship

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By Martha Butler

One could really learn a lot from other people especially to those they love. Building up a relationship to them will surely take much time to be fruitful. Once everything becomes stable, thats the time one will feel inferior. Whether its normal or not, it must not be left ignored. Something should be done to solve it.

Couples usually feel insecure towards their relationship. They think that they need to do more than we they are doing now, or change an aspect. Dealing with insecurities in a relationship are said to certainly be a bit complicated. The battle between your thoughts and reality would be difficult that needs total workout of things around you.

There are actually many ways to tackle about this. Not all of them are suitable for one but it may still help. The result will still be dependent on what kind of situation are you in. Keep in mind that these are just guidelines to follow but would not fully give the right decision to make. Check out the tips below and see what suits you well.

Being too involve with your own side is not really good to your partner. Since you have decided to be together or somehow attach to one another, one must adjust to every decision made. Make it a point that being fair is visible and care would always be prioritize. This is one of the species in life that make the whole thing very interesting.

One should never make what ifs a hobby. Analyzing too much that are not yet declared is like a torture for you. Its quite stressful to think of something that is not sure and might not even possible to happen. Give it a rest and let your trust overflow in your whole being. Its pretty useful to just aim for what is possible and positive.

If you noticed, small events can make one react on it. When you are paranoid, you will lose a lot of chances along the way. This will block any upcoming opportunities that you have been waiting for a long time. Relax and let the good will guide you with your decisions. Besides, there is always amazing happening in your life.

Having communication or conversation with someone is considered a therapy. You dont aside from letting yourself loosen up, it may also gather some solutions to your problems. Have a regular talk with the people you love. Surely, they are always willing to listen and its a perfect time to tell them your emotions towards something.

The most important thing is, loving yourself. Whether youre doing the right thing or not, you must acknowledge how you love yourself. Its an effective of telling everyone that you are happy with your decisions. Confidence would surely boost up your actions and will surely save you from any kind of obstacles or challenges.

Dont let your insecurities win over your life. Make it certain that theres a purpose why things must happen. You dont have to blame yourself about something that is purely bound to happen. Surely, your partner will be pleased with the changes in you.

About the Author:

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Are You a Late Bloomer

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Lisa and  Michael - 50 somethings in love!

This summer, I’m having a rash of 50-somethings and seniors getting married.


These people are happier than teenagers experiencing first love, and I’m thrilled for them.


You may know that I teach that love knows no boundaries like age. It’s never too late for love.


If you’re ready for it to be your turn, then, here’s what will help.


1. Remember that love can happen at any time. Keep your hopes high, and look for the love stories that remind you that you have every hope for love.


2. Look for your blocks. You didn’t have to wait for love this long. Something is delaying you. Get to the bottom of it & let go of whatever is holding you up. Common blocks are: fear of commitment, past trauma, freedom issues, feeling unworthy of love, a bad pattern and hanging on to the wrong person.


3. Send out a soul call & stay at Soulmate Level of Attraction. Do an energetic invitation for your soulmate to come NOW, and get happy and hopeful. This is an environment in which love can come quickly . . . even if you’ve waited far too long.

You can be the NEXT late bloomer, so if youve given up hope, tak heart. Its never too late!


love,
Kathryn

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Theres Some Magic In These Moments

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By Evan Sanders

Pressure.

Lots of pressure. The type of pressure that turns you into something youve never been before. The type of pressure that can crumble you or turn you into something amazing.

Theres fury in this heart of mine right now. Theres this strong pull I can feel tearing at me to go a different direction.

Ive felt this pressure before.

And it can build for a long time.

It runs over your chest, up through your cheekbones and down the sides of your neck. It circulates through you like chaos incarnate.

Its begging me to do what I know I can.

Your heart begs you to take action, to drop all of the decisions youve made before, to let everything that is toxic in your life fall away and to try something brand new.

Ive not made that decision previously because I was scared to. Scared to dive into that place...

Because I know that this version of myself, this version that I worked so hard to create...Ill just never be able to go back. Ill never be able to go back to the person I am right now because of the request.

Its okay to change.

And yet...its such a bizarre feeling to have this coming from your heart.

It takes a lot of faith to drop into something new. It takes a lot of faith to step onto a path that you have no idea where it will take you. All you know is that its going to take you somewhere great.

And to run purely on faith that its the right thing to do?

Its not even fear...

And yet...

It doesnt feel unguided.

So make the commitment to dive into what you know you need to do. Make the commitment that goes beyond saying that youre going to do it and actually do it for a change.

Leave all of the old pieces behind.

And step into something that will change your life. Never come back. Never look back.

All the logical arguments could tell me otherwise, but this is all beyond logic. All beyond what my mind could possibly tell me. This is in the depths of my heart.

Have faith.

Leave your mind behind.

Trust you are headed in the proper way.

About the Author:

Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME coaching. Dive into these great Quotes About Fear http://thewordsofencouragement.com/quotes-about-fear/ or these Strong Women Quotes http://thewordsofencouragement.com/strong-women-quotes/ to get some motivation to move forward!

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