As difficult as the concept seems at the moment, this will pass in time. You must be willing to take the time to allow it to happen though. Thats often the most difficult part of the healing process. After all, we live in an "on demand" society. We want fast cash, fast food, fast checking, express elevators, and even express rides at amusement parks. The wait for your broken heart to recover might seem interminable. Thats why so many people decide that getting back together with your ex is the quick fix to all your pain problems. However, that can create more problems than it eliminates if you dont take a little time to plan every part of the process carefully.
A Proper Plan Takes Time
Time is something you really do have. Its also worth taking at a time like this. Most people make critical mistakes within the first 48-hours of a breakup that put their efforts to win an ex back behind by months - or longer. If you took the time to take a step back and plan it out properly, these mistakes could easily have been avoided. More importantly, youd have had time to a do, at the very lead, a little cursory research to find out exactly what they are.
You Must be Committed
If you really want to win your ex back, you must be committed to the cause, even if the plan youre following seems counter-intuitive (the best plans do). This isnt a quickie fix. If youre trying to get back together with your ex, chances are good that theres a reason the relationship ended in the first place. Youre must be committed to the part of making positive, lasting changes (dont worry, most of them are completely painless) in order to make things work this time around.
What if the Answer is No?
Despite the best planning on your part, the answer you get is sometimes not the answer you want. You may lose a battle or two along the way. That doesnt mean youve necessarily lost the war.
It is, however, time to fall back, regroup, and renew. More importantly, its time for a change of tactics. I can help you with that!
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