This can be hard to deal with but the best thing you can do for your own well being is to move forward. It may prove to be a long and tough road but by doing a few simple things, the whole journey can be much smoother and you will be back on top of your game in no time!
Delete, Delete, Delete:
The first thing you should do is remove your ex from your life... completely. To delete him from your life you need to delete him from your phone and social networking sites.
Having his number in your phone is just going to serve as a temptation to text him and having him as a friend on a social networking site isnt going to help the moving process - its just going to be a reminder of what you cant have. The last thing you need to see is the picture he posts showing him out having a good time with his friends...or with another woman!
You also need to get rid of every dirty piece of clothing, toiletry and any other belongings he may have left at your place. Dont even think about sobbing to love songs in one of his old t-shirts, that is not a recommended way to move on.
You may want to consider just throwing them out instead of returning them. If you do decide to return them, consider having a friend deliver them, or leave them somewhere he can pick them up without you having to be around.
Whatever you do, do not call him:
Taking the time to call him or even send him a text is not going to accomplish anything; its just going to make you feel worse about the situation. You need to keep in mind, he dumped you, and as harsh as it may sound, wants nothing more to do with you. Calling him just makes you look desperate so just dont do it!
Have Fun:
Take on the help of your girlfriends and go out and have fun! Indulging in a little bit of excitement with those people who truly love you is a great way to take your mind off the situation and help speed up the process of moving on. Dance your heart out, laugh till you cry and treat yourself to a mini-makeover! After all, the sweetest revenge is showing him that you are perfectly happy without him in your life.
Dont accept his apologies:
As time goes on and you start to finally feel better about the situation, chances are he is going to offer to be friends or apologize over what happened - this is when you tell him to talk to the hand!
Being friends is not going to work out and he does not deserve to be forgiven. Dont let his glistening eyes lure you back into his whirlpool of trouble because remember, you are moving forward not back.
When someone breaks up with you, believe it or not, it is not the end of the world. Look at it as getting some much needed "you-time" and before you know it you will be feeling better than ever!
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