Trying to Get Your Ex Back Is This Standing in Your Way

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Its not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel as though its spiraling out of control. Your solution to the problem is simple.

You have decided to get your ex back. Youve thrown all your heart, soul, and energy into the coffers and, yet, youre still not seeing a satisfactory return on your investment. If anything, the cold shoulder your ex has been giving you just keeps getting shoulder. Whats going wrong in your efforts to win your ex back? Perhaps, its one of these common, but fixable, hiccups.

Youre Trying Too Hard

You want results and you feel that this is worth an all-out effort on your part. Unfortunately, what your ex needs right now is a little bit of emotional distance from the situation. Sometimes absence really is all it takes to make the heart grow fonder. You just have to give the absence the opportunity to happen. Step back. Scale things down completely and let your ex get a taste of what life is really like without you in it.

Making all the Wrong Moves

At least, thats what it feels like is going on. Every move you make feels like its pushing your ex further and further away. The thing is, its not the moves youre making that are the problems. Its the fact that youre making them. Stand down. Give your ex a chance to breathe a little. Use this time wisely to come up with a plan of action designed to get your exs attention in a really positive way when the timing is right.

Moving a Little Too Fast

This is quite common. Your heart is telling you to get in there and "Nip it in the bud!" You dont want to hear any more of this breakup talk. You want to end it all, right now and get on to the infinitely more enjoyable making up talk. Theres a reason Barney didnt get a loaded gun and that he was only given ONE bullet. Your heart means well but it doesnt always steer you in the right direction.

If none of these things work to get your ex back, then what will? It takes a well-planned and executed attack to win your ex back after a breakup. You must spend some serious time planning your strategy and paying attention to the little details. More importantly, it takes knowing what to do next. A second chance is just that -- a chance. If you want to make it work, a second time around then you need a little magic on your side. I can help with that!


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