How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Proven Tips to Woo Her Back and in Your Arms Within 7 Days

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Has a relationship that you thought would never end suddenly hit a brick wall? Do you feel like you need to get over her but you cant? Are you feeling that you need to put aside a last burst of energy to try and win back the love of your life? So do it! Here are four proven ways that will ensure you know exactly how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

#1 Be friends

The first step is to ensure that you let her know exactly how you feel. Go heart to heart and say you cant lose her for good. You want her as a friend and mean it. This will make her respect you more than ever!

#2 Organize to meet

Organize to meet up and do something that means something. If she likes a certain place to eat then go there for dinner. Drop in the odd conversation relating to your past and make her realize what she is missing.

#3 Its OK to be honest

Be honest with her and make sure she knows how much you did and do love her. This will make her feel special and may make her think she has made a mistake

#4 Dont get desperate

Have contact but dont come across like you can not live without her. Nobody wants a desperate boyfriend; they want someone that is up for a challenge! Bear all the above tips in mind and take it slow, before long shell be crawling back and youll be in the driving seat!


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Apologizing To Get Your Ex Back Why Apologizing is the Wrong Answer if You Really Want to Get Her Back

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Most guys think the perfect answer, after a breakup, is to apologize to the girl who got away. Some of them have a hard time understanding why this doesnt work - or in some cases makes her even angrier than she was initially. Apologizing is almost always the wrong answer. Here are just a few of the reasons why.

Apologizing is a Sign of Weakness

Fans of the hit television show on CBS have heard this a time or two throughout its many seasons on the air. Its one of Gibbs favorite sayings. But, it is a sign of being on the weak end of the argument. You never want to broach an argument from a weaker position.

Apologies Come Across as Insincere

Chances are good that youve apologized in the past. Perhaps, youve even apologized for the very things she says are the problems in your relationship. Apologies, without action, do not bring about a sufficient result to make her happy. While you dont have to change everything about who you are, sometimes, youre going to have to make some adjustments to your nature in order to keep her happy and make her FEEL loved by you.

Apologies arent Specific Enough

Apologizing for "whatever you did to make her leave" isnt going to cut it. She needs to hear the specific reason why youre apologizing. She wants you to acknowledge that youve hurt, neglected, ignored, cheated, or whatever it is that youve done. She wants to know that you understand its wrong. Problem is, she doesnt always tell you what you did. Which leads to the next reason its a bad idea to apologize when your girlfriend leaves.

Its Too Easy to Apologize for the Wrong Thing

The last thing you want to do is add fuel to the fire by apologizing for something you think she found out about, while failing to apologize to the thing thats really set her off. Talk about digging in deeper!
The bottom line, when it comes to apologies, is that there are many more ways to get it wrong than there are to get it right. If you feel you must apologize, its best to do it in writing and follow these simple rules.

1) Be specific.
2) Make your apology brief.
3) Keep it simple.

Putting it in writing prevents a fight, gives her time to think it over, and provides a neutral setting where she can process the apology and what it may mean for your collective futures.

Apologies, for the most part, have a negative impact on the future of the relationship. Instead of a apologizing, look for positive aspects of the relationship and attempt to capitalize on how good you were together rather than revisiting mistakes that were made along the way.

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Being Lonely is GOOD!

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Why Being Lonely is a Good Thing

If you are single and feel moments of loneliness, this is a good thing. It is indicative that you have a vacuum in your life, a space for love to come into. Being lonely means that you are wide open for The One.

This void, though it may feel empty and hard to deal with, is something to be guarded. The temptation may be to fill the loneliness with anything that comes along like a casual date or an old flame, but avoid doing so.

You dont want to start seeing someone just to fill the loneliness. It would be easy for you to try and make someone fit in there, but instead, imagine that this loneliness is a treasured place within you, only to be filled by your One, your soulmate. Treat it as sacred and dont easily let someone into this space.

In moments where your loneliness flairs, try the following:

1. Take a moment to be grateful that you feel lonely, knowing that the opening for your soulmate is intact and magnetizing him or her to you.

2. Send love to your soulmate wherever (s)he may be, knowing that youll be together soon.

3. Release any impulse to take a stopgap measure to fill the loneliness such as late night dialing or making a date with someone youre not that interested in. Better to daydream about your soulmate instead.

4. Dont respond to a feeling of loneliness by letting it get you into a desperate state. Desperation repels, and it can lead you to bad decisions.The more you can start labeling your loneliness "good," the sooner you will be with your love, as this loneliness is a powerful attractor for your soulmate.

To take a powerful step toward the love of your life, look for Kathryns brand new, low-cost ebooks on Amazon including the 99 cent Finding Forever Love.

Heartbreak Corner: The Biggest Delay to Love

There are numerous things that can delay love for you. In fact, ANY time you have a negative thought about love, you may delay it. But the biggest delay of all is hanging on to a past love.

The attachment that we can get to an ex can be as powerful as that we had to our parents as infants and can be tough to shake. And it can keep you unknowingly UNAVAILABLE for your soulmate.

There is also the tendency to think of a past love as the best you could ever hope for (at least until you meet someone better, your soulmate.) Keep in mind that the best is yet to come, and this faith can make it much easier to let go so you can be free for full-on, 100% right love.  

To let go once and for all and quit delaying the love of your life, get the RELEASING A PERSON CD or ebook. This work is extremely powerful and has helped thousands to get beyond an attachment and move on to soulmate love. To grab your copy, click here.  

To Go Further in This Effective Work

Kathryn s  Finding Forever Love ebook is available on Amazon. It will jumpstart you into her effective "love attraction" process. A fast and easy read, its a great starting point to travel quickly toward your soulmate. Click here to get it.



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Something To Do NOW!!!

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12/30/09 Boracay, Philippines

Happy almost New Year! We are in the middle of all of the action on White Beach in Boracay for a few days, staying right on the beach and it is pretty fun. Were living in bathing suits and alternate between lounging, playing games on the beach and taking a dip.

Holiday Love!

As opposed to last year -- when we stayed in with family for New Year’s Eve -- we’ll be on a yacht with friends, watching fireworks go off all over this 4-mile-long beach! A perfect way to shepherd in a new decade, no?

Heres something you MUST DO today or very soon.

DO YOUR INTENTIONS! The beginning of a new decade is a POWERFUL time to affirm what you want. You can ride on the vortex of CHANGE -- extremely strong right now -- to watch your dreams happen.

If you took the free teleseminar I did Monday night, you know to pick 4 things that you really want in 2010 – no holds barred - write them down and hold them as sacred.

Light a candle over them. Then at midnight on New Years Eve, make a toast and bless these intentions (you don’t have to disclose what they are if you don’t want to).

If you want to dive in further to make your intentions happen quickly (especially if they’re big or if you have been stuck and not manifesting), I’m teaching a 4 week telecourse on Deliberate Creation, which includes a private mini-session with me and therefore is very limited in enrollment, in January & February.

In just 24 hours, half of the slots already got filled, so if you want to dive further into making your intentions happen in breakthrough fashion, then look into joining us while we still have spaces available at:

www.kathrynalice.com/deliberatecreation/

See you soon! And I bless your 2010 to be OFF THE CHARTS!!

love,
Kathryn

Santa Arrives by Boat on Boracay!

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How to Get Back Together After a Break Up

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How are you feeling just after breaking up with your ex? There may be two different kinds of feelings going on in you. You may be feeling very sad right now & wanted to cry out loud alone or you may be feeling very relieved after the break up that had happened recently. If you are having mixed feelings and are interested in getting back together after the break up, please stop whatever things you may be doing right now and continue to read to learn more as getting back together after a break up is definitely possible if you are really committed to make it happen.

Before getting back together with your ex, you must take into considerations that there are things that you should work on. Put on your thinking cap and start to think what causes the break up of the relationship in the first place. This may be a very tough process but you must really face it in order to clear every obstacle that you are going to face along the way. Always remind yourself to be strong and think clearly about what will you do when you manage to get back your ex relationship.

There are always times where we do things incorrectly and you may think that the best way to get back together after a break up is to take the initiative to call your ex up and beg for their return. This is definitely not the way to do things as you will look just like a beggar to your ex. Some of us will feel very sad about the break up and think that they should lock up themselves in their home and cry all day long. This is definitely not the right way to settle things properly. If you are pretty serious about getting back together after a break up, think of how you can exactly build yourself during this bad period.

The followings that I am going to share with you are the 3 best steps that you can do in order to get back together after a break up:

Step 1: Accept What Had Already Happened

I know it is very hard to accept the fact that the break up had happened but you cannot live in a way that your relationship can last long if you continue to have the same problems going on. You must learn to accept that the breakup had happened so you can start working on how to renew things. Do you know that getting back together after a break up means that you will need to end the original bad relationship and start all over again? You will definitely want a fresh new relationship filled with happiness around it rather than trying to fix things in the same way like they were before. Am I right?

Step 2: Do Not Call Your Ex

You did not see wrongly what was written above. Never try to call your ex when you are working on how to get back together after a break up. You have to let things cool down first just like having a hot engine running non-stop. You do not want to totally spoil the relationship just like causing a hot engine to explode without letting it cool down when it was overwork right? Try to regulate your own emotions and start working on what had happened that causes the break up. You must figure out what went wrong and try to rectify it before you start calling your ex. Always work on improving your relationship in your mind, and never call your ex until things have totally cool off in your heart and mind.

Step 3: Plan for the Right Timing

Once you have the confident and feeling that you are more prepared to get back together with your ex, you can begin to plan the where and how on getting back together. By the time you have settled in your mind after cooling down after some time, you will have a clearer picture of whether you are still in love with him or her or not. Since the relationship had already ended now, do not point the finger of who is at fault. However, try to focus with positive thoughts in your mind on how you are going to get back together after the break up. When you reach this stage, you definitely can start to call your ex for some casual conversation, or start over with a good friendship, and let things develop from there. If you take things slowly and treat them positively, getting back together after a break up will definitely be easier than what you have thought.


Are you finding ways on how to get back together with your ex? Have faith in yourself that nothing is impossible and follow all the tips, methods and strategies in all these articles, you will definitely get back with your ex lover one day


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How Can I Get Rid of This Pain

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A saying that I love is: “the pain will push you until the vision pulls you.” 

Heres a great question one of you sent in.

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Q: Kathryn, Ive finally released my ex, but now, I have new pain. I am so lonely that sometimes -- even though Im done with him and see he was not good for me -- Im tempted to call him just for companionship. And all my rejection-thinking is arising, too.

Ugh! Am I just so used to pain that I keep recreating it? I couldnt sleep at all last night. Please help.

A: This pain is fake. And we need to get rid of it.

I know it feels real, so why do I say that?

Its because its based on false premises.

In this case, it means that youre being pushed by the pain -- some past pain.

The reason I call it FAKE is because its assuming that you will always be in this place -- that vacuum that happens before love comes.

But do you know how many people Ive shepherded through this time into the arms of their One? Thousands!

And every one of them wished they had known what was ahead so they could skip the useless pain and be getting ready for the lifechanging moment when love walked in the door.

You have set a powerful intention to follow your dream of a soulmate, and this intention is at work on your  behalf, even when you’re not thinking about it.

If you can refocus on that, then youll be pulled by your vision instead of pushed by this needless pain.

Pain is an indicator that something needs to shift for you. Sometimes it’s something that you’re grieving, which is legitimate pain, but often the hurt is caused or exacerbated by you.

How do you cause your own pain?

• By holding on to a person who is not yours and being unwilling to move on

• By accepting a belief about yourself of about love that is limiting

• By letting people into your life who are hurtful to you and not supportive

• By taking things personally that aren’t (like “rejection,” which I don’t believe in)

• By having a narrow vision that is fear-based instead of full of the faith that love is still in the works for you.

The quickest way to relieve your pain is to examine how you’ve created it and do something differently.

Also, elevate yourself back to your vision for your life, dwelling on that instead. As you do so, there is no pain that won’t fade, no situation that’s irretrievable. A pain-free life becomes real.

Im blessing you for carrying on toward your vision. It will happen sooner than you can imagine!

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The HARDEST Part of Dating

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After working with tens of thousands of people for years on dating issues, I have no doubt what the most difficult aspect of dating is. It is so painful for some that they eschew dating altogether even if it means they won’t find love.

THE ANSWER: The not knowing as you go through the process. Yes, being vulnerable, a requirement for love, and not being able to foresee how love will show up drives people mad. And for no good reason!

How to get over this serious difficulty? Change your thinking about it.

1. Realize it’s exhilarating. Part of the excitement of falling in love is the unpredictability and the anticipation. No one would skip this part when they finally meet their One.

2. Deepen your faith. Remind yourself that love is a done deal for you and will show up in the perfect way (even if your love life looks DOA right now). It will make this process less maddening. You do get love for sure – remember that!

3. Remember: that you can’t skip the process but the end result is worth it. 99% of those I work with would probably skip dating if they could and just go get married (seriously). But of course, this isnt possible. Even if the next person you date is your soulmate (& by all means, affirm this if it’s what you want), you still have to undergo the getting-to-know-you phase, otherwise known as dating.

I bless you for finding an easy way to date – the payoff is worth it!

Talk to you soon!

love,
Kathryn

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Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Hong Kong (Victoria) Harbour

Hi! We are back from Hong Kong! As promised, I’m posting some photos here. It was an amazing trip, though a bit chilly (we bought jackets!). Jon and I are scooting to explore 4 other Philippines islands before we leave, and we all are dropping by Beijing on our way back to the U.S.

 

Julian and Me, Hong Kong Doubledecker

Kids Stuff! Ocean Park, Hong Kong

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