Get It Over With Tear Off the Bandaid!

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Q: Kathryn, I have been in love with a man for several years. We work together in my office. We flirt, but nothing more has come of it, and I am too shy to say anything. I just found out he got engaged, and I am devastated.

 No matter how hard I try to release, my love for him continues. I feel like he will realize he loves me and break off the engagement. And even if he gets married, I think I may always love him. But I am miserable. What can I do? Thanks for any advice.

A: If ever there was a wake-up call to let go, this is it! What I have to say may surprise you. I find that those who get hung up on someone unavailable are actually unavailable themselves. In some way, your feelings for this man keep you “safe” – out of reach for real love.

Perhaps something in your past has made you equate love with hurt so it’s easier to have a fantasy love rather than the real deal.

But the real deal is SO much more fulfilling, and you will have none of the pain you are feeling.

What I suggest you do is to Clear Your Field. This is a radical move, but it has worked super well for people who pined away for someone for up to a decade. Here’s how to Clear Your Field.

1. Find out the truth – if this person is interested, even if you feel you are sticking your foot in your mouth.  It is better to KNOW than be in some fantasy land. It is better to get beyond it, bring it to earth and move on. So, ask about it, bring up the subject. I know this can be humiliating and risky, but your future in love is at stake. This is serious!!! 

2. If the answer is NO, or if this person tries to lead you on   

(often those we get attached to have a vested interest in having someone on the side to feed their ego), then you need to get real here. This step can help you to realize it will never work out and that it is beneath you to continue these feelings.

3. Sit down and assess what you’ve learned. Ask yourself if you are willing to put your precious life on hold for someone who is just not returning the feelings. I’ve had great success with folks who can finally see the truth and get over it. It’s like ripping a bandaid off. Getting it over with shakes you out of the attachment that has held you hostage. You will be amazed at how quickly this reality check sets you free, and it is worth saying something just to get beyond it.

4. Do a release and then turn your attention to the love that awaits you beyond this. A real love that loves you back!

Here’s the Truth: If they were your One, it would be working out. And, they may be an eel. The reality with your One will be SO much better!

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Why People Walk Away From Their Psychic Calling

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By Kindley Brians

Why do we often feel not called to do something after we have been doing it for years? May psychic advisers are asking themselves this question today. A lot of spiritual advisers feel like leaving the business for many different reasons. For starters, they dont want to feel like they are doing something wrong. They often feel like they need to grow with a new career. This is mainly due to the fact that they no longer have an interest in giving prophecies.

Prophecy is hard to give. You have to be right 99% of the time or else people will assume that you are a scam artist. Many men and women from around the world believe in getting readings. Often, readings involve a spiritual adviser telling you what they see for your love life. These psychic readings are often draining and hard to imagine doing. It is hard to imagine yourself getting involved with a reading on a daily basis. Many people feel like they have to go about things a little bit more differently.

Psychics today have a tough job ahead of them. They often have to work for low pay because the psychic networks often take all of the money that they are working hard for. If the price is $1.99 a minute to speak to the psychic, the psychic is often only getting paid .20 cents a minute. Therefore, psychics must read for many people a day in order to make a decent living for themselves.

A person may walk away from their calling if they feel like they are tired of hearing from the same people. Often, psychic networks attract the same people to you all of the time. They often only want to know about who loves them and when they are going to make more money. Instead of using your spiritual gifts for getting closer to God and who will become the next president, people only want to talk to you about what is on their mind.

If you are trying to get out of the business, it is time to do so. You will regret not changing professions. In the 1990s, people did not bombard psychics so much with problems. They were more interested in getting a reading about the future from you. Today, many clients think that phone psychics are counselors and people to complain to.

A lot of spiritual advisers are going back to old school free readings. They are finding out that their gift is able to grow in leaps and bounds when they help someone for free. Often, you get a new person calling you that wants information. It is not the same old person calling you about the same thing every single day.

Psychics often complain that they cannot see into the future on their own. They often go to other psychics in order to get a prediction. It is not uncommon to hear of a spiritual minister saying that they are okay with this. It is important to note that clairvoyants see things for one another as well.

If you are okay with leaving the industry, do so with a clear conscience. There is nothing wrong with leaving the industry for many different reasons. People will eventually come to see you as being a strong and level headed individual as well. Move forward and watch your energy grow over time.

About the Author:

Visit our website to get a tarot online reading about the guy that is not calling you. We do love readings 24 hours weekly. Our advice is priceless. Online tarot card readings give people a sense of peace and understanding in their lives. We like to think of a reading as something that brings more peace into your life. We post new articles weekly on our blog as well.

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The Psychic Predicted That My Business Would Take Off

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By Maria Topito

Millions of people today are using psychics in order to grow their client base and produce better sales. Psychics are being used more now than ever before in history. This is mainly due to the fact that we now have the World Wide Web and can connect with these spiritual advisers in many ways, shapes and forms. Many spiritual advisers says that they can see into the past, present and future. It is understandable how many spiritual advisers are helping business men and women.

It is not uncommon to talk to an executive from a religious background that says that they speak to psychics. Most people are not ashamed to say that they got an amazing prediction from an adviser that was caring and insightful. Many psychics use their sixth sense in order to see information for people. Their psychic gifts often help them to see that there is a lot more out there that they can understand. In life, you have to see the future through your own eyes. However, a psychic often lets us know that good things are ahead for us.

Many psychics work on a commission base. They will often charge you by the minute of you are talking to them over the telephone. If you are talking to them in person, they will often charge you a flat fee of around $40.00 to $100.00. Be wary of spiritual advisers that ask you to pay them thousands of dollars to do a business spell. Many people have lost "their shirts" because of doing this. Make sure that you have a reading that is within your budget.

Many spiritual advisers can tell you when something good for bad is going to happen to you. Often, a spiritual adviser will tell you that they see something ahead for you. This can be a good stream of good luck. The astrologer may tell you something specific such as, "I see you going into a white building and making an amazing deal with the owner. You two will become partners." If you get something specific that you can work with, it often benefits you more than anything else. Remember that you can easily do better if you have faith.

Another fact is that many celebrities use psychics. Recently, Tori Spelling was in the media because she announced that she was a spokesperson for a psychic company. Interestingly, she said that she had been using psychics for years and is not afraid to talk about her experiences with spiritual advisers. In todays world, people are becoming less scared to talk about their personal spiritual relationships. What do you believe about the spirit world and do you think that its possible to succeed in business with a money psychic?

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I Attract Creeps!

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Q: Dear Kathryn, I keep attracting scary guys – ones who make my skin crawl. And when I try to make contact with attractive guys, they ignore me. I am so tired of having to suck up my feelings and have a stuff upper lip like a marine. Even some of my male friends call me GI Jane and say I am one of the strongest women they know emotionally. What advice would you give for people who have reached the end of their rope like me?  Thanks.

A: I’m sorry you’re having this experience. The fact that you feel like a soldier at war is not good. It means you’re approaching life as though it were a battle zone, which I know if feels like for you right now.

The truth is that life can be very easy – like an endless vacation. But we need to change some things.

What you’re drawing into your experience indicates that your point of attraction is off. It can be for a number of reasons, but central to it seems to be a lack of healthy self-image.

Being approached with unwanted attention usually means you lack proper boundaries.

And when those you want to connect with are ignoring you, it often shows that you are carrying a “script” that says “I’m not worth noticing.”

These can be altered. We need to lay in some better boundaries for you. Then the “creeps” will steer clear of you. And as you change your script to one that says: “I’m worthy and a catch, hotties will line up to pay you some attention.”

I bless you for stepping into the different life you SO deserve!

Love & support, Kathryn

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Love Life HIJACKED !

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Q: Kathryn, my mom is getting dementia, and I’m faced with moving her into a facility – which is going to be a process. I’ve also got a gigantic project at work that is stressing me out. I fear that my love life is being hijacked. I was just feeling ready for love, and now all of this! Should I just give up for now, or is there still hope for me and love?

 A: In my books, I recount stories of people who have found love at the most unlikely times.
 

• A woman bald as a cueball undergoing chemotherapy for cancer who fell in love with one of the clinic workers.
• A man whose mother had died who met his future wife at the funeral.
• A writer on book deadline – completely stressed – who met her fiancé in a café she hung out in to get some chapters done.

Your future is SO bright you need shades! That has not changed. This blip on the radar is NOTHING in comparison to how good it will get for you. If you don’t have your soulmate, then the best is yet to come.If you can maintain a hopeful attitude, even as you tend to what’s in front of you to deal with, then love can still come at any time.

 Love is so magical that it is always limitless in when and how it shows up.

 Remember that, and I bless you for getting your mom settled well, your project successfully completed & still finding many moments of job . . . and yes, even love . . . along the way.

Im sending you love & support for hanging in there until love shows up.

Love & support, Kathryn

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