What is Magic?
For some people magic is something mystical and wonderful that cannot be understood, much less explained. For other people, magic is simply a trick of the eye or some sort of sleight of hand that always has a solution.
Whether your definition of magic includes something enchanting and wonderful or a mystery to solve, getting your boyfriend back doesnt involve supernatural maneuverings.
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A few magic words certainly will help.
Zip
This is the little pop of fun, pep, and life that is necessary in all lasting relationships. What kind of zip has your relationship had lately? Were things going along swell and suddenly the bottom fell out?
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Have things been slowly switching from sizzle to fizzle in recent months? When was the last time you went on a romantic date together? How long has it been since you werent able to keep your hands off each other?
But how do you put the zip back in after the fact?
You add the zip into your own life. Spruce up your image a bit. Add a little sparkle to your appearance, add a little boost to your confidence, and become the vibrant, active girl you were when you first met. If the two of you move in remotely similar social circles he will hear about the new you and it will drive him insane with curiosity.
Zam
Get into the best shape of your life. Whether its losing weight or adding a little tone, now is the time to get into shape and really take care of yourself. Make sure youre eating nutritious meals and drinking plenty of water to stay hydrated. These things are important because the one thing you want, more than anything else, if you cross paths with your ex boyfriend is to come across as happy and healthy.
He expects you to do a little bit of pining and its going to really make him curious about whats going on in your life if youre going around looking better than ever.
Zoom
Keep going and dont stop to grieve over him. Commit yourself to living your best life without him in it. Its not moving on. Its not letting go of the idea of getting him back. Its even better. Its showing him that you dont NEED him all the while hes figuring out that he might actually need you.
Relationships arent easy, but neither is breaking up. Give him the chance to see that youre making it on your own, without him, and hes very likely to make the first move so you will have no trouble convincing him that the idea to get back together was all his. THAT is the truly magical aspect of getting your boyfriend back convincing him that hes the one who wanted to make it happen.
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